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• wondering if anyone knows what just happened to me.. posted (2 years, 11 months) ago
  i was watching a show and then all of a sudden i was breathing all funny. like id be barely breathi…

• And she asked: Are you okay? posted (2 years, 11 months) ago
  I replied: Yea I’m fine. No, I’m really not.. I feel so jaded and hopeless like IR…

• why cant i care about anything? posted (2 years, 12 months) ago
  i feel bored and unimpressed with everything around me. give me something to do. something to care…

• i’d like to talk to her once more.. posted (2 years, 12 months) ago
  if only to remind myself why she wasn’t worth it but that’s not going to happen, ’…

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• (1 vote) How do you define a crush?
  

  infatuation: kind of like love at first site
  lust: attracted to the looks/physical aspects of the person
  crush: someone you like but havent told them you like them yet
  love: caring for a person that goes beyond crushing/lusting/obsessing over someone
  
  - written 2 years, 11 months ago – voted for by Richard Cor de Lyon

• (1 vote) Why does the way people look make such a huge difference in the way people treat them or react to them?
  

  oh yeah for sure i understand. hell ive been wishing for 20 years for people to open their **** eyes and see the real me. but apparently this meat suit is a fricken blinding light that just wont stop shinning. ahh well..
  
  - written 2 years, 12 months ago – voted for by Dr. Ralph

• (1 vote) Need Tips =]
  

  work out. do weight training. lift the heaviest weight you can while doing a good amount of reps and sets. to burn fat, work out early in the morning before eating anything. if you work out after having eaten, all you will burn is calories. you dont want to waste unnecessary time burning calories first and then fat. also eat a diet rich in fruit and veggies, they help with the fat burning. good luck.
  
  - written 2 years, 12 months ago – voted for by jayjay-grad-0

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• Let go or hold on?
  

  dont bother with him. hes not worth your time and apparently youre not worth his. youre better off with someone who can treat you right. you know you deserve better. dont settle for less.
  - written 2 years, 10 months ago

• i have no skill of laugauge
  

  [quote Rainee2193][quote Fail]hiiiiiiiiiiiiiii! its TJ lol. :)[/quote]
  
  hiiiiiii tj lol
  i add u as my firend muhahaha[/quote]
  
  haha lol okay :P
  - written 2 years, 10 months ago

• i have no skill of laugauge
  

  hiiiiiiiiiiiiiii! its TJ lol. :)
  - written 2 years, 10 months ago

• I havestarted excersising and well afterwards like now i find it hard to breathe, cough, chest pain that is small.
  

  astham is when you have trouble exhaling. try google. depends what exercises you do. carido can tire you out and if youre not fit enough it can make it hard to breathe.
  - written 2 years, 11 months ago

• I’m 18…(Beware: this post is pretty long)
  

  [quote Anonymous][quote healberry]Alright, let me just state this first: don’t change yourself to purposely attract men. Stay true to the self you are most comfortable with. Sometimes people are just in the wrong place at the wrong time and can’t find anyone. I know several people in their late teens and early 20s that are very attractive, but most haven’t had anything beyond a first date. One, who is happily married, didn’t kiss anyone until she was 22! The point is that just stop worrying. Love will come when it’s good and ready, so prepare by being comfortable with who you are. Rid yourself of those insecurities and focus on building your self-esteem, not tearing it down as you have done so in this post. The truth is that 23% is still a decent population, and because it’s an art school everyone will have something in common: a love for aesthetics. There’s your conversation starter. and it probably won’t be hard to find someone outside of the college, either. trust me. You’ll do fine. Btw, guys at your school are crazy, because nerdiness is hot, haha.[/quote]
  
  That’s true…I feel bad putting myself first, but I really do need to start working on my self esteem, like you said! I guess people won’t like me until I like myself, right? It’s just hard to find my good qualities sometimes, especially when others who are prettier, smarter, or what have you, seem to always have things great. I really need to start concentrating on the good parts of my life rather than the bad, even though it’s impossible for me sometimes. Do have any self esteem upping suggestions?
  
  And that’s true…I guess the gap of ‘what to talk about’ will be way smaller, so that’ll help… my major is sort of boyish too (Animation), so hopefully some guys will be in there that like the same stuff. ^^ I’m just worried that if there’s no one IN college, where I’ll be able to meet someone outside of college. Any good meeting spots you know of, in general?
  
  Thank you so much for posting! 3[/quote]
  
  ive a suggestion for upping your self esteem: do not by any means compare your self to others. this usually leads to you feeling either really bad because someone is too [insert adjective]. this is because there will always be people in the world who will be better than us at mostly everything. but at the same time there will be people who arent as good as us at something.
  
  comparing yourself to these people will leave you feeling way too good about yourself almost as if youre too good for them and you might get all snobby and what not. so its just best to realise that unless youre a big time superstar or the richest man or the most prolific serial killer, chances are youre just gonna remain somehwere in the middle. and thats OKAY. nothing wrong with that as long as youre moving up and forward slowly at your own pace.
  
  trust me i used to compare myself to people all the time and as a result i had 0 self esteem. infact i did it just recently a few weeks ago and i had my first ever panic attack as a result. it was scary and i hated it and i realised that i have to stop thinking like that to ensure i never have a panic attack again. and so far im doing good. its a long process and its difficult to accept yourself and realise youre a great person but well, itll be worth it in the end if you can accomplish this.
  - written 2 years, 11 months ago

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