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• I’m turning 30 tomorrow. posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  I’m sure most people think, “okay”, but I am having serious anxiety over this. N…

• Why is it more socially acceptable for a man to have sex than for a woman? posted (1 year, 10 months) ago
  I mean, if a man has sex with a million women, that’s okay. As a matter of fact, he is prai…

• I admitted to him that I slept with someone while we were broken up. posted (1 year, 10 months) ago
  He’s hurt but admits I did nothing wrong still it bothers him. I feel like crap because he i…

• Have I been flagged or something? posted (1 year, 10 months) ago
  I have had three posts need approval tonight! This is hilarious! I’ve been on here for sev…

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sunshine797's Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) Can a guy really love you if he’s cheated on you three times before?
  

  NOPE!!! I don’t care what sorry @$$ excuse he gives. If he loved you, he wouldn’t want you to be hurt and he’d rather die than to be the one who inflicts the pain on you. You need to end it (if you haven’t already) and just know that you deserve someone to REALLY love you. You are WAY better than what he has to offer you.
  
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago – voted for by jen2599

• (1 vote) if u are in 7th grade are u 12?
  

  Yeah, why do you ask? It seems to me if YOU were a 7th grader, you would know. You’re not doing something creepy, are you?
  
  - written 2 years ago – voted for by anneliesehuss

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• I’m turning 30 tomorrow.
  

  lol! Thank you, everyone! I was (am) putting my children down for the night. My 3 year old sang “You are my Sunshine” to me… It was truly one of the greatest moments ever! I am grateful for everything and I know that I don’t even deserve a small portion of the wonderful things in my life. I’m really making a concerted effort to shake this… I’ve cried my tears (may have a couple more) but I will be able to let go of this horrible feeling. Just hearing, well seeing, other peoples thoughts and ways of coping sometimes helps too. :-)
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• I’m turning 30 tomorrow.
  

  Yeah, my kids are growing up so fast. I realize it everyday and it terrifies me. That was actually what prompted this thought process today, was me making a comment about I hope my kids remembering me after I’m gone. It wasn’t even a real thought until after I said it and then it was like someone dropped a few tons of bricks on me and I’ve had a hard time dumping them. Like everyone, my children are my world.
  
  The grateful list is something I’ve actually I did for a while. I believe Oprah said something about when I was out sick one day a few years back or something and had suggested writing at 3 things you are grateful each day. This may sound simple but when you are fight depression, it can sometimes be hard. So I try to not pick the same three things so that I can ultimately realize how truly blessed I am, even when I am in the darkness of the moment. I haven’t done it in a bit so I will get back to it. Thank you!
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• I’m turning 30 tomorrow.
  

  Thanks… I know it seems silly. Like you, Cosmic, I think I think too much. I’ve been trying to focus on everything else today, you know, work, my family… I look at my kids and I tear up! lol I am really hoping this will settle down in me soon. And everyone is right… you have to not worry about death but it’s the “not worrying” part I’m trying to overcome at the moment. I’m sure this too shall pass but in the mean time, I appreciate everyones help. :-)
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• what would be your utopia?
  

  Oh, and birds would just use a public bird restroom or only poop in “designated pooping areas”.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• what would be your utopia?
  

  [quote JesusMurphy!][quote sunshine797]Pet tigers, both yellow and white, as well as beautiful birds that don’t poop all over the place..[/quote]
  
  That doesn’t sound like a utopia for the tigers and birds.
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  Well, in my utopia, tigers and birds get along perfectly. I think maybe the tigers must be vegetarians or something or maybe they just eat cat food. ;-)
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

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