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You are the only one you can control so if you want things to turn out differently, you need to think about what YOU could have done differently and think about what you will do next time.

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[quote agaperoot]You might become the rebound guy, there is always that risk when someone is coming off a relationship, but then again I married the rebound guy.[/quote]

I married the rebound guy, too! :)

Oh dear.

Well even from the bad there is something to learn.

1. Don’t drink so much (or don’t drink at all if you can’t handle it)
2. Bad things you do will tend to come out (so don’t have affairs)

Ask her out!

I would have a huge problem with it. that just wouldn’t happen!

Don’t go in his room. Always knock.

My husband has ADD. He drops the ball from time to time but it doesn’t mean he has to smoke pot and need a ‘keeper’ and not work. Can you get into a free rehab program? Getting off drugs should be your first step, I think.

Was it his room?

Get yourself banned forever.

Knock next time…always knock!

That is not ok that he says that. You shouldn’t tolerate that. I would certainly say that is a form of emotional abuse. Does he also abuse you physically?

Don’t adopt children with him. If he isn’t willing to mend his ways and go for counseling or something you should not continue with him.

Ask him what’s going on. Tell him that what he’s doing isn’t ok. Talk about it with him.

Why aren’t you together?

I think you can find a job you love without university. My husband did. He’s working his dream job without college or university.