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• Is It True that men only get married because they feel they have no choice? posted (2 years, 9 months) ago
  ? The Man That I love said that men only settle down cause they feel they have to. Like its just the…

• What happened to real Friends? posted (2 years, 9 months) ago
  ? Why is it so hard to find good people who arent in it just for themselves??…

• I Am a single Mother of one beautiful little girl… and as many many women find there selves in this situation and find it so had to stay positive posted (2 years, 9 months) ago
  Am a single Mother of one beautiful little girl… and as many many women find there selves in …

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• When hard times come your way….Do you fold like paper…or are you able to find the strength to get through them?
  

  Im pretty good with the hard things its the easy things I have a hard time with… When people are worried about paying the bills on time Im not cause I know weather I have the money or not God willing it will get paid some how. But if I cant figure out how to turn on the tv Oh My Goodness life is over…lol its quite wired. Dont understand why Im like that…
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago

• Is It True that men only get married because they feel they have no choice?
  

  [quote r2d2]I was just reminded of this song which has been a long-time favorite of mine — and I just couldn’t resist sharing it :)
  
  [youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=10L5KSrTJTs][/quote]
  
  Wow yes i like that song thanks for sharing it!!
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago

• Is It True that men only get married because they feel they have no choice?
  

  [quote Relentless Striker][quote PositiveChanges][quote Relentless Striker]So PC…what do you plan to do?[/quote]
  
  Well… its not like he asked me yet… lol but I really couldnt get married knowing its not because of love…[/quote]
  
  As unfortunate as the situation is….I think you are making a smart decision. I hope all goes well for you.[/quote]
  
  Awww Thanks… and thanks for the talk!! It helped for sure!!
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago

• Is It True that men only get married because they feel they have no choice?
  

  [quote Relentless Striker]So PC…what do you plan to do?[/quote]
  
  Well… its not like he asked me yet… lol but I really couldnt get married knowing its not because of love…
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago

• Is It True that men only get married because they feel they have no choice?
  

  [quote Relentless Striker][quote black rose]what is marrage anymore, you dont need to get married to be with someone for the rest of your life and just because you do get married it dont mean you will stay together. too many people get married before they even know the person and getting divorced is far too easy and socially acceptable now.[/quote]
  
  That depends on your moral compass. If you are christian, well you know that according to the bible marriage is the only way that a man and women can be together under one roof and have sexual relations. And that marriage is a life long bond. Divorce is not part of the deal. Outside of that is consider fornication.
  
  On the other hand…if you choose not to go that route well then to each his own. I would say at least date for a while. Get to know what kind of person he is. How does he treat his family? What is his relationship like with his parents, his siblings? These are the things to look for because they will be brought into the marriage.
  
  Having a mate with whom to share life’s joys and sorrows is truly a blessing. Marriage can fill a void caused by loneliness or despair. It can satisfy our inborn craving for love, companionship, and intimacy.
  Being married can solve some problems. But it will introduce some new ones too. Why? Because marriage is the blending of two distinct personalities that are perhaps compatible but hardly identical. Hence, even well-matched couples will experience occasional conflict. If he is not marrying for love how is it that he will be willing to resolve the conflicts of marriage. Marriage should be taken seriously and should be undertaken only by two people who know how to freely forgive on another.[/quote]
  
  I really Like this… This helps a lot…
  
  We have been on and off for the last 12years more on then off though. We live separate lives for the most part… we have a beautiful baby girl together and maybe this is why he said what he said. To much going on maybe he feels like this is what he has to do now. Im not there yet though but I think he may think this is what I want and what people expect of us now. I want us to be ready, both of us cause I dont believe in divorce so we would have to make it work.
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago

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