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hey woman how are things going? hopefully good! just wanted to drop by and say hi!!!

hi thepp is leaving, could you email saying to look at his post and stuff

Divorcing. Paperwork in progress. They are definitely going to, but the final paperwork hasn’t been processed.

and I played in the snow yesterday morning, speaking of ohio. Its too cold there.

No, he’s not fishing around. He split his wife not long before I started dating him. Their relationship is very over, but he’s missing his kids, and it’s causing him a lot of angst. He doesn’t want to deal with a new relationship on top of that. Fair enough, but he should have thought of that BEFORE he started seeing me. And it’s been about 6 months now.

you should pay attention to the people you pass by everyday. there are people everywhere who feel the same as you. Just smile and say hi to someone everyday and someone will respond sooner than you think.

His birthday is on Friday. We were supposed to go to a game together, but he told me yesterday he didn’t want to go with me.

I want the person I thought he was. But I’m pretty sure I don’t want the person that he is.

I don’t think I’ll run into him. The worst danger is that I start missing him a lot and start reaching out to him. Right now I just feel relieved that I don’t have to deal with him right now, or worry about anything.

I took a bit of your advice. If it’s half the time, then I need another few months to get over him. So I told him today I needed some time away from him. I hope that will be enough….then maybe we can be friends (if he’s capable of doing that) without this hanging over us.

Yes things keep changing at a tremendous pace. Makes life interesting!

Thanks for reporting that user.

Two websites about EMO.
www.forfa.com
www.mesaverde.co.uk
emo is short for emotion or emotional.
Realy it is a culture.

Myself I would leave the situation as it is. Forget it and move on. We all would like the nice things to happen now, but life isn’t like that. It makes you wait, but it will happen. Be ready for it when it does come. Just build your self up to be the best person you can. Be yourself dont knock yourself out trying to be like others. By being nice, considerate and respecting others brings the same back.

I have looked at the pros and cons I have realy tried to find some good in what you have written. I dont have to give the verdict you have already found out for yourself.
The one thing that realy sticks out is the mother daughter relationship. If the daughter isn’t enough to stop Katie from doing the right thing, then you dont stand a chance of just being her friend. I am afraid she will hurt you time and time again.

I have read your shout and need a bit of time to digest it.
I will read through it a few times to better understand it then I will give you my honest oppinion.
At the moment my instinct is to say stay away.
I will get back to you.

Thepp.

Hi Arcane.
Life can be a real pain dont you think? You have managed to reach out to people on this site and give them good advice. Give yourself a chance and keep on being strong. Just liking people and helping them, bring back good feelings, love and respect. Life from there will get better. Help where ever and when ever you can. Dont ever forget that you matter as well. If you can like your self for the things you do and for what you are. Then surely you are doing the best that you can. Stay strong just be your self.

It’s been so long since someone spoke so kindly to me… my eyes ‘are watering’… :)Thank you.

I really do know how you feel. I have been there many times in my life. Sometimes it feels like you aren’t getting a leg up that you need. I don’t believe in fate but I do believe in humanities ability to recognize others. I truly hope someone takes a chance with you. Why not open your own business? I bet you would be very successful.