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don’t feel you’re alone there’s always at least someone there for you. it may seem like theres no-one but thats not true.

i sometimes feel quite upset at times, nothing too serious though.
try and find a happy place, like a fantasy of your most happiest memories, thoughts etc. that might help, and as for postnatal depression, not all women get it so i guess if you try to stay happy, then you might be able to avoid it.

is the father still with you, and have you tried making friends? i know it’s not easy the only real friend i have is my fiance, good thing we’re close. but i still talk to people so i guess that if you just try striking an occaisional conversation with someone if could lead to a very nice friendship.

it would be good for your self esteem if you had a friend or even just someone to talk to that won’t critisice you.

theres so many different laws and things everywhere and it does get quite confusing, i’m currently living with my fiance but my centrelink pay still goes into my parents account, and my pay goes off their income so if they earn too much then i have a small pay which is crap considering it’s not in the same household.

but anyway, i reckon ring your local police nd ask them what the law is in your town/state/country. that would probably be your best bet.

dont let him keep worrying you like he is, because it’s certainly not good for the baby.
confront him, no matter how angry he gets you have to stand up for what you believe in, and i know how hard it is to try and state your point when you’re afraid of losing him or for what ever other reason,

and also i know this isn’t a good way to keep a good stable relationship but try and hide some money from him, that way it’s not going to get spent and try and add to it everynow and then.

well not to burst your bubble or anything ‘conan’ but
1) women aren’t fat for the whole pregnancy
2) some pregnant women actually get a high libido while pregnant and have better sex while pregnant, so you could have the time of your life!
3) and not all men are expected to pay all the childs costs, i am more then willing to work while ‘Grim Reaper’ stays at home to look after our son. therefore i will be earning the money and ‘Grim Reaper’ will be the stay at home Dad.
4) well honestly i don’t really have a comeback for this one but just to let you know, for most parents they mature after having a child therefore they realise staying at home with there children is much more important then drinking and getting your drink spiked then getting raped in the alleyway behind the night club (sorry to be specific)
5)both the parents attention is focused on the baby, but that doesn’t mean they need to completely disreguard the other parent.

i’m not trying to change your opinion, i’m just trying to show you the good side of parenting life. it’s not all just dirty nappies and fat women.

well there’s a baby book called bounty. now in that book it says that if you’re overdue then there are a couple of ways to bring on labour,
1. Sex
2. a long brisk walk
3. stimulating the nipples.

i’m 8 months pregnant and i sometimes get the same thing, but it’s not all the time,

besides sex is one of the ways you can bring on labour if you’re overdue,

and your boyfriend shouldn’t get uptight about having to stop in the middle of sex because it’s physically hurting you.

it could be possible, but my advice (and don’t thnk i’m pickin on you, is that before you have sex again, get clued up and atleast know what the chances are that you’re pregnant)

AND USE CONTRACEPTION!!!

well, i’ve read (only in the baby books) but i’ve read that if theres a slow leak then it could be your forewaters (the amniotic fluid infront of the baby) but if it’s a gush of water then it’s your hind waters (the amniotic fluid behind the baby) and if it’s a gush then labour will follow in the next 12 hours.

also i’ve read that contractions are like period cramps but as they progress they get more intense and closer together.

it’s personal decision, if you want make a chart of the pros and cons then work your desicion off that.

honestly my son is going to be circumsised and i don’t think it’s wrong at all i believe that i’m doing him a favour,

tip: DON’T DO IT YOURSELF, GO TO A SURGICAL CLINIC THAT DOES CIRCUMSICIONS.

i have moved out, but i also finished school, i’m living with my fiance but my social service payment is still based on my parents income and that won’t change until i’m at least 18 or 21, which is crap considering that i’m not living with them.

you can move out at 16 but don’t expect centrelink to back you up unless you have a dodgy relationship with your parents.

if it’s a full period then theres 98% chance that you’re not pregnant.

but if the period is lighter and doesnt go for as long as normal then you might be.

i thought it was only in a mans arse, but in both for a women, but then again i’m not that clued up really.

i wouldn’t complain working for $12 an hour, **** thats better then the local shop. anything above $10 and hour works for me, moneys money