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• Boys and girls names? posted (2 years, 9 months) ago
  Hey everyone, I’m kind of stuck on this at the moment! I’m currently pregnant and I don…

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• (1 vote) Hi I’m 14 years old
  

  Oh honey, I’m so sorry:( You’re too young to be going through all that.
  
  Clearly, you have had a hard childhood, but even so no child should be on the streets at fourteen. May I ask what country you are in? Because in different countries there are different charities for children, and also social care etc. etc.. Your problem isn’t just having these problems, it’s also having nobody to share it with, and that can really make the world look like a darker place. You would be surprised at how much good it does you, and we are always here to listen:)
  Esme
  
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago – voted for by liam96 =]

• (1 vote) I was anorexic and I managed to hide it from everyone until I got into a very low weight.
  

  I think it’s great that you realize that you need to change, but if you are wanting to change your compulsive eating then you need to talk through with perhaps a professional the cause - why you have eating problems, and once you rectify that then you can rectify your problem. You may not even know the cause, but there always is one.
  Esme
  
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago – voted for by ccath

• (1 vote) i am in the middle of a bitter divorce.
  

  Is your wife happy with her new partner? Because if so, I’m sorry but I don’t think it’s going to go back to how it was. If she isn\t, however, there is hope. Everyone makes mistakes, and you just have to forgive people in life because perfect people do not exist. She can’t keep you from seeing your children, however. You will have to take her to court for custody rights if she will not settle it with you. I’m sorry, I hope it gets better.
  Esme
  
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago – voted for by amberr*fr3ak$*

• (1 vote) I have two friends.
  

  To be perfectly honest honey I think that you are probably better off without them, just remain civil and let them get on with it. To me, they sound highly childish. I’d leave the cousins alone, stay on good terms with everyone, and find your solace outside your church. Sorry honey :( sometimes you just have to realize that some friends are not worth having
  Esmex
  
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago – voted for by Konkidonk

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• I’m female, 27, single for four years now, with expressive language disorder and a high IQ.
  

  Aww, :( honey
  
  You know, if you find the right guy, it won’t matter in the slightest. Hey, loads of people without a diagnosed ‘disorder’ have the same problems as you! I really don’t know a lot about this kind of thing…is there any help that you can get?
  - written 2 years, 5 months ago

• I’m female, 27, single for four years now, with expressive language disorder and a high IQ.
  

  [quote linuxya][quote JasperHunt]Expressive language disorder is basically [/quote]
  
  I don’t want your interpretation of the poster’s statements. I want the original poster’s answers.[/quote]
  
  Are you being deliberately rude or is it just coming across like that? Because Jasper is just trying to help you because he knows about this disorder and you do not…is it not then just common sense for him to enlighten you? You can’t interpret a disorder differently so Jasper’s description and the poster’s would not be different.
  
  Actually, reading your post again, it is uncalled for rudeness.
  - written 2 years, 5 months ago

• My whole family hate me.
  

  Aww, you’re so lovely. Anytime!
  x
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

• My whole family hate me.
  

  You’re so welcome! Hey, and if you want to talk about it more or if anything else is bothering you, please just say so :) And you’re beautiful, by the way.
  x
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

• My whole family hate me.
  

  Aww hi honey,
  
  You don’t sound very happy :( What Jasper’s saying is actually very true and very constructive and I agree with him. If you talk to us or somebody else about how you’re feeling then I’m sure it will help you. We’re all very understanding on here and just want to help you :)
  
  From a girly point of view, being fifteen and not having a boyfriend is no bad thing. I see young kids these days beginning relationships like that very early and that is up to them but it’s completely up to you :) the fact that you haven’t had one doesn’t say anything bad about you! And Jasper’s point about meds from the gp - I knew a girl a little older than you that did what Jasper suggested and her skin is much better now! And with all the help available now…not that you probably need it, anyway!
  
  Talk to us if it helps honey :)
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

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