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I really need a new pair of glasses. Send your miracle in my direction when you’re done with it. ;)

Quoting from here: http://www.suite101.com/content/every…

“Games and sports were an important part of Celtic life. They played a game called hurley, also known as hurling. Similar to hockey, it was a contest waged between two teams using sticks and a ball. Legend tells of the Irish king, Conchobar, who divided his day between watching the youth in contests of hurley, playing the board games of brandub and fidchell and feasting and drinking with his companions to the accompaniment of minstrels and musicians.

The Celts also loved the hunt, and pursued boar and deer from horseback, accompanied by their hounds. They considered the breeding of “clever” hunting dogs an art.

Read more at Suite101: Everyday Celtic Life: Celtic Apparel, Food and Pastimes http://www.suite101.com/content/every… ”

[quote red1263]Fire![/quote]

Earth :)

I just thought of something else: When all the roads look bad, when things are at their worst, there’s only one way things can go: Up.

If it can’t get any worse, why be afraid to try? If you’re suicidal now, it can’t possibly get any darker.

Trust me. I’ve seen the end of the proverbial rope. I lived in a van for six months because none of my family “had room” for me in their houses; in the winter, with it getting down to ten degrees farenheit at night, and with no heat in the van. I know what desolation is. (That’s a long story, for another time.)

Sometimes you just have to MAKE yourself put one foot in front of the other, and keep breathing.

[quote Sum]

im numb already as is though… pills are mostly to numb… i dont want to make it worse :/

thats an “acquaintance” and i dont even have those. I live heavily isolated in my home with my family and i just dont have anyone around where i live. I cant feel like i can be around anyone because of my family invading my life. I hate where i live and i am not too relatable with the people here.

it almost feels way too late for me and that theres no hope left at all. Every time i try and figure out a way i get held up because of how i feel about my family.

well its not quite the same. I was forced to apply for SSI under mental/learning disability :(

I never had a job so i know nothing of how to do that or if i am even in the last bit capable. I guess i would be best off in something not so social because i cant socialize properly having to come home to my family al the time… which i know doesnt even make sense :( I dont know about how to get an apartment either T__T

I dont even know how to connect with anyone in person because i have no life to relate to them. Most guys i dont seem to like and a lot of girls arent so forgiving of any problems in acting a little off from not being used to being around people :/

I cant seem to no matter what :/ its like impossible to get in my head and i dont even trust them at all really unless i know them personally or something… ive had problems in my life actually caused by psychologists such as false diagnosis’s which my mom clinged to -____-

More than embarassing it will be legal documentation saying i am a lesser incapable person unable to perform normal tasks as anyone else and thus it would only make it harder to get a job. Not to mention this disaibility i was originally filed for i do not actually have. The only thing i actuallly have is some kind of anxiety problems and depression.

*sigh* god im ****** up :S i feel too ****** up to live [/quote]

I’m left with no option here but to be absolutely blunt. You need professional help.

The only other option would be to find someone who would support you and let you live with them the way your parents do; a benefactor who would take care of you. While that’s not completely impossible, it’s extremely unlikely.

The only thing preventing you from having a normal life is your own emotional state. If you can’t overcome it on your own, then you MUST seek psychological help. A lot of people do, I have, and it’s just something that we have to do sometimes.

The problems you have are bigger than a website like this can fix.

Maybe your family was trying to get you onto SSI because they know that you NEED it. Maybe it’s the best way for you to get out on your own? It doesn’t sound like you have any real choices here.

If you eliminate suicide as an option, and you can’t get a job because of your feelings, and you don’t have anyone else you can live with, the only thing left is counseling and SSI. Whether you like it or not, I really, truly think it’s what you should do.

Everybody does things they don’t want to do. I don’t want to go to work, but I will, because if I don’t, I won’t have a place to live. I hate most of my co-workers, but I endure working with them, because if I don’t, I won’t be able to pay my bills.

[quote Anonymous]harbor[/quote]

dock

If it’s an antibiotic, no.

[quote ~CaitherrA~]Camping.[/quote]

Tent.

In the US I know there are grants and loans that can help someone in your position. I have no idea what’s available where you are.

Where are you?

[quote nefarious6161][quote Cobweb]
As far as getting the ears cropped: Like chopping their tails, it’s purely cosmetic, absolutely necessary, and cruel. If you love him you won’t do that![/quote] Yeah, I don’t ever plan to. I just wanted to know if it was uncommon for one to be done without the other. Thank you for so much information.[/quote]

That word should have been “unnecessary”. I need more caffeine! :D

[quote Tate]colorado[/quote]

Mountains. :)
(My first thought was ‘John Denver’. lol)

[quote grbghp]take you where?[/quote]

I assumed the OP meant ‘taken into custody’, as in going to jail or some other institution.

[quote Puck You]Magic[/quote]

Orlando :D

[quote philliesgirl40]

all i wanna do is make sure everyone i love is happy[/quote]

Your intentions are fabulous.
I was making a play on how hard it is to please people. ;)

[quote philliesgirl40]honestly, i dont care what i get i just wanna make sure everyone else is happy first and get them what they want.[/quote]

That makes your yuletide wish the hardest on here so far. :D