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• (7 votes) my husband almost raped me last night and i dont know
  

  It’s a tragedy!
  
  We all, outside of your relationship, can see, that you’re abused, that you’re a victim — but you yourself you cannot (that’s why I made reference to the Stockholm syndrome).
  
  What you have to think about: We all here are ON YOUR SIDE, we want only the best for YOU and YOUR CHILDREN. Nothing else!
  
  Don’t fight against our advices which are very serious. Compare your sayings:
  
  You started with:
  • “he almost raped me”
  • “i dont know what to do”
  • “im frightened”
  • “i dont feel like me anymore, i live to make him happy”
  • “I cant go anywhere without him going crazy”
  • “he has some information on me and photos of me (explicit) and keeps threatening to post them on facebook”
  • “Some of the comments he was making were so vile it made me feel sick”
  
  But then you changed your direction:
  • “he is fantastic father” (Can’t be true after all we know.)
  • “the kids have never witnessed any of his abuse towards me” (How can you believe such rubbish? Children are able to FEEL very well what happens between the parents — but they don’t speak about to you or him!)
  • “I am in no way a perfect wife” (Nobody is perfect; you can’t use this as an argument IN HIS FAVOR!)
  • “He got angry saying i never pay him any attention and show him i love him.” (This — in his favor — you have INTERNALIZED, no?)
  
  What do you really FEEL all about? Is your gut feeling buried?
  I’m sure you need HELP, and you know this too — why else would you have made this post here!?
  
  So you have to ACT now! Bring you AND your children out of this DESTRUCTIVE living conditions!
  STOP defending him, STOP all that blandishing and whitewashing, STOP your enslavement!
  RIGHT NOW!
  
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by ☯Minerva☯, Zirbel, Rosabella, SleepWell, Christop7

• (4 votes) i have a friend that likes to experiment with my face.
  

  Does she lay her breasts on your face?
  ;-)
  
  - written 10 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by Dr. Jackson, Tantalus, Sans, SecretSummers

• (4 votes) Answer honestly, do you really care if someone has a messy room?
  

  [quote The_Mom]The old saying goes a cluttered room makes for a cluttered mind.[/quote]
  “If a cluttered desk is a sign of a cluttered mind, then what are we to think of an empty desk?”
  Albert Einstein
  
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago – voted for by Daft Puck, babacup, paranormal real

• (3 votes) the only time i feel nice about myself is when a guy
  

  “How to Stop Cutting Yourself”:
  · http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Cutting-Yourself
  · http://www.howtodothings.com/health-fitness/how-to-stop-cutting-yourself
  
  “Cutting and Self-Harm · Self-Injury Help, Support and Treatment”:
  http://www.helpguide.org/mental/self_injury.htm
  
  “How to Stop Cutting Today - The Solution”:
  http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Stop-Cutting-Today—The-Solution&id=986395
  
  “Some Alternatives to Cutting”:
  · http://www.pacwcbt.pitt.edu/Curriculum/921.%20Cutting.%20Undrstndng.Plnning%204%20the%20Self.injrng%20Chld/Handouts/HO%207%20SomeAlternativestoCutting.pdf
  · http://www.psychforums.com/cutting-self-injury/topic60461.html
  
  
  [youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uYaKIGtKpjw]
   
  
  ✖ Help-Pages and Hotlines ✖
   
  • U.S.:
  Self-Injury Hotline
  SAFE (Self Abuse Finally Ends) Alternative Program
  1-800-DONT CUT (1-800-366-8288)
  http://www.selfinjury.com
  More: http://www.selfharm.net/restherp.html#usa
   
  • U.K.:
  http://www.selfinjurysupport.uk/help-and-support-self-injury
  More: http://www.selfharm.net/restherp.html#uk
  
  • Northern Ireland:
  ZEST
  0287 126 6999
  http://www.zestni.org
  
  • Canada:
  http://www.selfharm.net/restherp.html#canada
  
  • Australia:
  http://www.selfharm.net/restherp.html#aust
  
  
  —> Helpful forums of people concerned:
  · http://www.mentalhealthforum.net/forum/forumdisplay.php?29-Self-Harm-Forum
  · http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=16
  · http://www.crazyboards.org/forums/index.php/forum/30-self-injury-the-cutting-board/
  
  - written 6 months ago – voted for by Maher, ☆★space⋆junk., Sans

• (3 votes) Troy Davis was executed tonight in Georgia.
  

  This case is just one more shame for the judicial system of the U.S. and the American fanaticism for the death penalty.
  
  The more executed people the more acclamations by the crowd (“Republicans Cheer Texas Death Penalty”):
   
  [youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ocKFSLsZnUo]
  
  - written 8 months ago – voted for by Rosabella, SpinningPlates, love4tacobell

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• What does the collision theory state?
  

  See:
  · http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Collision_theory
  · http://chem.salve.edu/chemistry/temp2a.asp
  - written 10 hours, 4 minutes ago

• What do you think about someone thirty being in a relationship with someone twenty three?
  

  It happens. What is YOUR problem with?
  - written 10 hours, 6 minutes ago

• Is there another program like sure cuts a lot that
  

  DesignStudio or Make The Cut
  
  See: http://die-cutting-machines-review.toptenreviews.com/cricut-software-designstudio-vs-sure-cuts-a-lot-vs-make-the-cut.html
  - written 10 hours, 7 minutes ago

• Are transition states (in chemistry) short-lived?
  

  Quote:
  “The transition states for chemical reactions are proposed to have lifetimes near 10^13 seconds”
  More: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transition_state_theory
  - written 10 hours, 11 minutes ago

• I need a light hung in the entry way.
  

  Order one! The electrician next to you will help you to find it.
  - written 10 hours, 14 minutes ago

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