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• How can I find out if I’m really lesbian? posted (2 years, 9 months) ago
  I have been very confused about my sexual orientation the last six months or so. For I do like boy…

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• i wanna know what it means when u say hi to a girl online and she puts ..hi?
  

  Does she do it more often? Do you talk to her more often (/online)? Maybe she just had a weird mood… I have that as well sometimes and then I’m all unkind to people I really like. But it could as well mean she was just wondering why you would talk to her.
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago

• How can I find out if I’m really lesbian?
  

  Thanks for your help on this… It’s a good idea to start experimenting indeed. I’ve reacted on some contact adverts from lesbian girls on a gay website now… and so far it’s really great. So yeah :)
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago

• How do you stop cutting your self?
  

  and how about a counselor? At my school we have special persons to talk to if you have a problem you feel you can’t solve on your own and don’t want to talk about to your parents. Do you have those kind of persons in your environment?
  
  And you could try going to a clinic by bus, just search on the internet for all the information you need about where the clinic is and at what time the bus leaves and how near to the clinic the bus stops and everything.. or call the clinic before you go and ask them how to get there… or go to a counselor to ask for help on going to the clinic.
  
  Certain is that you’ll have to talk to someone older who knows something about the subject. Like a kid’s help line; http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/en/ (this is the canadian one, don’t know if there’s one in USA as well.. there probably is one…)
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago

• This is a sonnet about daisies that i wrote off the top of my head for a friend in need.
  

  Yeah it’s very nice for that fast of a poem (just the 8th line.. hehe.. how can a garden be formal? You just needed something to rhyme with formal, right?) But yay, let’s go celebrate the new spring. For two weeks now the flowers next to the roads here started growing again as well… narcissuses and those purple flowers (don’t know what they’re called in English.. crocuses?) it’s lovely to cycle home and smell those. Nice subject for a poem indeed. Maybe I should be writing one as well… Or I’ll just go post something about my poet’s block ;P
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago

• How do you stop cutting your self?
  

  Well… I don’t cut myself but I can at least say there are other ways to release your emotions. People to talk to are always great, even if they’re only on internet, or maybe especially on internet because it’s easier to tell them your problems. Or write poetry like I do. Listen to good music (that’s what helps me as well).
  
  And you don’t have to tell your mother if you want to go to a doctor? You can visit one on your own if you can get there and they have the ehh.. duty to be silent about what you came for. At least they do in my country.
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago

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