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• I am having a two and a haif yrs of relation and my boyfriend is a real nice guy and i will never want to lose him.
  

  try talking with a normal voice instead of raising your voice, good chance that he still wants to hear what you say and he’ll lower his voice too.
  
  like jalees_regenc say’s…
  
  do things without him, and he without you, that way you have something to talk about what you experienced to each other.
  and talk out your problems, don’t leave it in the air for too long
  and if another fight occurs, try not to say such bad things, good chance he’ll follow your example,… bring back respect.
  
  good luck
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago

• My best friends are one of the main sources of my social anxiety
  

  about those friends of yours,
  
  i dont know if you’ll see them before you go away, or else try to meet, for the last time or something like that.
  and try asking how everyone, feels about/looks back at, past school time,
  and let out that what they did (to you) can ruïn someone’s mind and life,
  hopefully, a serious and personal conversation has begun
  but… stay calm, and be confident/self-assured with what you say.
  Don’t know any other way…idea’s?
  
  and about meeting new people,
  try not to be afraid,…faster said then done…yes.
  but like i said, stay calm, walk with your back straight and your head up, don’t stare people in the eyes, just look around a bit, watching other people is great :)
  When your in your first class or anything…
  introduce yourself to a few people, put out your hand, shake hands,smile and say your name and ask where the other person is coming from, and a conversation has started.
  
  Can’t go wrong, just make sure they atleast know of your existence (which you did by smiling and saying your name :d),
  that’s the start.
  when you see them again, put on a smile and say hi, may take a short while but every now and then starting some smalltalk or asking where something is breaks the ice.
  within no time you got yourself someone to hang around with.
  
  don’t know anything to say anymore right now, so talk away.
  
  Greetz
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago

• my name is santosh 25 years old,i lost my father when
  

  if its hard for you to find work…
  just keep trying to find work, take everything you get, and make sure you do a good job while your there.
  
  talk with your colleges, help them if they ask you…
  always be nice to people,
  if your boss say’s you did something wrong, ask them why, and learn from it.
  
  after a while and a few jobs later, lots of people will know you, and there will probably be someone who can help you with finding work and/or education.
  
  it will take some time, but if you say your a hard worker, then everything will be fine.
  
  Gr
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago

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