thank you for telling me this, and i am not mad at you for anything, your just trying to help out and i thank you very much for that, and i know the chances, my brother in law and my dad and grandpa were all in some sort of military, so i know how they can change, or even cheat, and i respect that they want what what they want, and i told him that, and i also told him that if he cheats on me that he didnt love me in the first place, and that is something that i will just have to live with, it dosent really matter how much i care about him, if he isnt willing to wait, then he isnt worth waiting a year for when he is deployed. thats what i told him, and we both agreed that if we cheated that we would tell eachother and then proceed with it at that point, and he hasnt been deployed yet, once he is i honestly expect him to have sex with someone else, because he is a 21 year old guy, and i know how much that the most of them want sex, and i also know that all of the other males in my family that have been deployed have cheated on their other whille deployed, and they just worked therew it, and i really love him , and have been with him for going on 4 years, and i am willing to work with him on what happens, and thank you very much for the advice (: its very much apreciated
I know we had a conversationn involving you and you boyfriend but i need to tell you something. Something that isnt good about the army.. whether or not you get mad at me i accept but i want you to get a headsup towards this because i dont want you to be more hurt in the future.
Most men in the army.. have a tendency to be really sexually turned on. Because they have not been in the city for so long it leads to them commencing in acts that are unfogivable. Im not saying your boyfriend is one of them, but just know peer pressure effects everyone in the army. He could be icked on if he didnt act the same way they did in that sense. Anyway, there are two things that im saying there is a chance of happening. One he will be a totally different person from whom you knew once he gets out of the army, or two he will have cheated on you and said nothing about it. I know i shouldnt jump to conclusions. But..the chances of that happening are still there. Please.. be ready for this…its just a headsup. Im not saying he’s not faithful to you, he might have been stronger than everyone else. But i just want you to be prepared..just in case. Im sorry to send this… i really am