John B's shout trail with readcar - Help.com

Best Wishes and Happy New Year!

RC

How are you doing? My problem is the same, and I see no solution, but I steadily work towards a solution, believing that if I get the work done before I die, then life will get better.

I don’t know what to say about your problem. All is to believe that life will get better for you. And to do everything within your power to make it a reality :)

i readcar i have just realized that all I ever is wine about my problems and never ask you how your doing or if you have anything on your mind that you would like to get off your chest or just talk about about somthing that you know wouldn’t go any further than me and you and I’m so sorry for not thinking about your problems I was to busy worrying my own so lets start over and I will Liston more than i bitch OK

thank you for taking the time to respond to my problem.but can you tell me why i’m so scared to get out of the house or check the mail or anser the phone? i used to never be like that.I feel like a kid with a monster under my bed, but im to scared to look. Am I loosiny my mind from being all alone for so long.I havent spoken or seen another humanbeing for weeks. is that wrong/

thank you for taking the time to respond to my problem.but can you tell me why i’m so scared to get out of the house or check the mail or anser the phone? i used to never be like that.I feel like a kid with a monster under my bed, but im to scared to look. Am I loosiny my mind from being all alone for so long.I havent spoken or seen another humanbeing for weeks. is that wrong/

Like you, I know what sorrow is :( but I keep going. There is no choice. I have two sons, and I live for them. I have one that needs me. I love the other too, even though he doesn’t need me. His future looks very good, which I’m happy for, and don’t worry about him, but worry about my oldest.

John B good and keep going to also make it through :)

hi readcar how r u ?IM not doing so good I think im in a depresion I getting where im scard to leave the house or check the mail and ansering the phone is a nitemare what do u think is my problem. all i think about is why am i here.i feel like my life is all for nothing and i will be glad when its over ,i bought a40cal Pistil for when i cant take it any longer but i worrie about what it would do to my 3 boys,what shouldI do and Im sory to ask u something likethis but nobody else cares,why should you,sorry to lay al this on u just delete it and forget about it bye bye

I didn’t mention bkg soda, so I’m surprised that you did. Bkg soda is what my husband has replaced with the red delicious apple. He started taking bkg soda more than 6 months ago. And that helped more than any of the other natural remedies b4 the apple. After taking bkg soda, he burped repeatedly. Back in ‘05, I had ordered some supplements, and his heartburn reduced, but I didn’t know what it was that helped him. He took honey, and that helped somewhat. He tried aloe vera, and that helped somewhat, but nothing like the red delicious apple has.

My husband also has no ear lobes, and he has creases in his ear, where his lobes would be, which has been reported as a sign of a possible heart condition.

Hey I’m glad to hear your husband {Bob}?is doing better,Iv heard of that before,my dad used to get up in the middle of the nite and eat a tablespoon of baking soda and it would stop it on the spot,I Know this because I had heartburn bad one nite so I tried it and my burning stopped before I made it back to bed!! I don’t want to scare you but did you know that heartburn,if frequint is a sign of heart problems that’s what the Dr said after my dad died from congestive heart failure at the age of 69yrs .but thats not always case.it could of just been dads time to meet the LORD..[I pray]If the the apples stop working try the baking soda.Sorry if I upset you,but its good to hear from you again.keep intouch OK BYE…..

Taxes have been filed, so that headache is over. And since we have more taken out than we owe, we don’t have to take out a loan ;)

I see that I didn’t tell you about us getting a 2010 Honda Odyssey in January. It had just a little over 23,000 on it. We went in to buy a 2011 Odyssey, but after driving one for the second time, we decided we didn’t even like the looks of them. Salesmen said they’ve been told they look like a hearse. If they hadn’t changed the design in 2011, we would have gotten one, because they were having all kinds of specials, but not on a 2010.

My favorite pear is a D’ Anjou (so juicy); another is an Asian Pear (so crisp). We had apple trees, but cut them all down. We had to fight the Japanese Beetles for any apples,and got sick of it.

Here’s some interesting information. I have been doing medical research for some time. I get ads about natural remedies. I got one a month ago, and am I glad that I did. My husband has suffered from heartburn for about 10 years now. He’s tried a variety of things, but nothing much worked. Then a month ago, an author sent one heartburn remedy for free, to advertise his book. That one idea worked, and since it did, we went ahead and bought the book, but found that my husband had already tried other remedies in the book.

This is the one remedy that the author gave free: his dad had heartburn so bad that he had surgery, but the doctors nicked him, and made the heartburn worse. The man had to sit up to sleep, but couldn’t much because he had to get up to spit out acid. Then one day, the author went downstairs (he was about 13 at the time) and his dad had slept well, and actually had a smile on his face. After investigation, he figured out it was the red delicious apple he ate the last thing b4 going to bed. Now my husband eats a red delicious apple last thing b4 going to bed, and he too doesn’t have heartburn. For this man, a red delicious worked for him, and it has worked for my husband for a month now. My husband tried a Jona Gold and it didn’t work.

Again, Johnny, you B Good, and we’ll chat again.

Well Hello again! hows the weather were your at? Its summer time here and I’m loving it,been planting fruttrees and bushes,so far I got 2 peach &1 pear tree blueberry &2 azaleas &4 forsythia bushes,and I plan on getting apple & a cherry tree soon.So how are you,and what have you been up to? Well If I dont hear from you I hope you have a good summer.BYE BYE

Getting older is for sure. I had another heart attack last May. It was my 3rd. I don’t know if I’ll have another one.

Here’s a joke: If someone tells you that they changed their mind, reply, “I hope it was an upgrade.” My son has a great sense of humor ;)

I hope that you are doing much better since last time you wrote. Johnny B Good :)

Hello readcar long time no see.hope things are going ok for you.things are going ever witch way for me.i sometimes dont know if thier getting better or worse.but thiers one thing for sure.and thats that im getting older forsure.hows about you?

John, thank you for your friendship :)

thanks for listening to my problems,I can tell your a good person,and I wish you luck with your boys

With his two brothers doing so well in life, perhaps your youngest son will grow up, and will also make something of himself. This could certainly happen :)

MY oldest son Derrick is doing very well in life.He lives in Lagrange Ga.He makes the water pure so they can paint new cars at a car factory>I forgot the name.he started at Toyota in Lexington Ky makes over 100.000
And the middel son is still in collage to become a Doctor he doing great in 4 more yrs he will be done.Im very proud of them o thier 25 & 22yrs old and the middel sons name is Jonathan lives in Mobile Al.

Both our sons turned out good. No dope heads, drunkards, nor smokers. Still, as you wrote, life doesn’t seem fair at all. What does that mean? We have no choice, only to live through life.

I am having my husband take several herbs known to support the prostate. Remember, I wrote his PSA was 32. Milk Thistle, NAC and alpha lipoic acid are known to support the liver.

Johnny B Good :) perhaps your youngest son will realize he’s ruining his life. Let us hope so. I really don’t know anything about your two oldest sons. Tell me more.

one more thing,He knows Im going to die at any time,and yet he yells I wish you would hurry up and die-I wish you were dead-I hope you die today and so on,Kids have no ideal what all we have gave up just so they could grow up and wish us dead.life doesnt seem fair at all

O about your son not having friends,you shouldbe kind of glad, he could have a bunch of dope head friends getting him HIGH like my son,and it makes me sick to see him when I know hes on drugs and theres no talking to him when hes like that,or the next day.he will look at me and lie to my face

Thank you for your concern,But they say my liver is serve scard with alot of cirosis,Im suposed drink LACTOLOUSE 2 times a day,It keeps the poison gas that my liver is supose too,from going to my brain the side affects are not hardly worth it so I dont take it half the time.death would be alot easer,but Iv never been one to take the easy way out,Its got to get better,RIGHT??????????

I’m saddened to hear of your situation. I know it is hard to raise children alone without respect of a spouse there to support us along the way. Even though you did good to raise him right, he can’t be controlled at this age. I hope that your son will seek help for his anger.

But now it is time to improve your own health and future. Have you ever taken the supplement Milk Thistle that helps cleanse and support your liver? And N-Acetyl-Cysteine (NAC), along with alpha lipoic acid, it helps produce glutathione: our body’s antioxidant that regenerates other antioxidants. These are suggestions in addition to prayer.

HELLO Thank you for your quick response..I am sorry to say he is no longer living here.we had a terrible fight.!he try ed to beat me up again,he evan brought help,so evan though Im sick with Hemochromatosis I HAD TO WOOP both of them and told them to get out and never look back.I feel alfull its been over a month sence Iv seen hem. Im so worried about how hes living.but I cant take it any more I am so upset pray for hem & me Please

I am in a state very close to you, southeastern U.S. I have thought of you, and hope things have improved for you. I hope your youngest son’s anger has been resolved.

Yesterday was my son’s birthday. Even though our son is wonderful, he has no friends, and no job. Here’s an example of our son’s wonder: Tuesday, March 8th, my husband started urinating frequently, and doing so was burning. Thursday, March 10th, he tried to get an appointment with a male doctor. He could get an appointment with a female doc, but he refused it, wanting to only see a man about such a private issue to him. That night, he told me about his condition, and that he could not get an appointment with a male doc. I immediately had him start drinking cranberry juice, and he said he was doing better, but that only lasted one day. He went through the weekend in misery. Monday we tried to get him in to see a male doc, and we thought it would be so. But Tuesday, the office called, and again, he could only get an appointment with a female doctor. He broke down Tuesday, and agreed to see a female doctor. He figured since women see men doctors, then he too can see a female doc. I was telling our son the basis of his father’s reasoning, and he said, “That’s why they’re called ‘guynacologists.” He’s always coming up with clever responses like that.

Did you know the expression “Your goose is cooked” originated from in England, prisoners asked for roast goose as their last meal?

Hi readcar.you know what I forgot I just said hi,5hrs ago.I think Im looseing it.You?

hello readcar.Im still hanging in there.How are you doing?(well I hope) I sure will be glad when it gets warm outside.Oyea I live in KY.and it should be getting warm soon.If you dont mind saying,Where are you at/from?

hello readcar.Im still hanging in there.How are you doing?(well I hope) I sure will be glad when it gets warm outside.Oyea I live in KY.and it should be getting warm soon.If you dont mind saying,Where are you at/from?

Dear John B,

How are you doing?

how are you doing?

I can imagine your pain, and it hurts very much: more in my heart than my body.
I don’t know what to say. I’ve never had such an experience. I can only imagine that raising sons by one self is too big a responsibility for anyone. I could never have raised my two on my own. Yes, I pray that you recover fully from injuries; that Zach’s unknown anger ends, and that he betters himself, for his benefit, as well as for yours, and for peace within your family.

Hi sorry I haven’t written lately,but Iv been very upset at mt youngest son Zach he has been doing drugs in my home while I sleep,when I confronted him with it all hell broke out he beat me up said I wasn’t his father and never will be.he cusses me you all the time and I cant seem to get through to him Its killing me but I called the police on him they found pot smoking pipes and things but all they did is made him and hie pothead friends leave for the night so I could settle down.but while he was gone I packed up all his stuff, I cant let come back he knows already have internal bleeding but he just kept kicking me in the stomach and said repeatedly,I wish you would hurry up and die,,and I dont think I can ever get over that, their will be no merry christmas in this house,pray for me PLEASE

I think I read someplace that you have 3 boys. What’s your oldest two doing? My oldest is here at home. My youngest, 25, is doing well. He’s a computer programmer.

Zachary is probably graduating high school this year. And I’m sure it’s hard raising children on your own, but it sounds like you’re a great father.

Yes my 3 are boys Sorry if I didnt make that clear,I thought I did.Iv got Derrick age 25,Jonathan 21yrs and last but not least and the hardest one to handle Zachary 17yrs old will be 18yrsold Jan,12 but nowhere close to moving out,and is driving me CRAZY

My husband and I are about your age. We have two sons. Our oldest, age 26, is the one I wrote about. I am a full-time mother.

I believe that your 3 kids are all boys.

OK thats cool.lets chat Im a 50Yr old man with 3 kids and a girlfriend I was single for 14Yrs to busy raising kids to have a woman in my life until this year I started thinking about myself for a change.Its not easy but Im trying.I guess Im set in my ways just a little.HA HA HA hows about you?

You didn’t. But I wanted to chat with you, so I came to your shout page. Shout me anytime :)

hi I didn’t mean to make this about me.I just wanted you to know that feel for you and that I can relate to your situation, and wish you lots of luck with your son, my problems are a whole new story,for another day

I wanted to ask you about: “If I ever get thrugh school and in collage I will be able to die in pease. My Dr only gave me two months to live but that was 3yrs ago.” What is your illness?

Thank you for writing :)