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• Ok so yesterday I was on here supposidly helping this guy who had cut himself, and so I wasted and hour “helping” him and talking to him about posted (2 years, 5 months) ago
  so yesterday I was on here supposidly helping this guy who had cut himself, and so I wasted and hou…

• OK so I witnessed the greatest example of karma today! posted (2 years, 5 months) ago
  Alright, so today in gym, these girls (the ones I mentioned before) were laughing at everyone. We…

• Ok, I really don’t need advice, I’m just venting. posted (2 years, 5 months) ago
  All right, so today, in gym, we were playing floor hockey and these two girls were just saying som…

• If you could, would you choose to know exactly how and when you will die? posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  –not to sound depressing, I’m just wondering :D –…

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• (1 vote) i need some one to talk to before i kill myself i dont
  

  [quote Sir Urgdu]Wait it out, and talk things over with your ex. She may be more receptive with time.
  
  As marthaspecialtal above said, you still have a place in your daughter’s life. She’s going to be wondering where her father is/went for her entire life. Your child would never wish your death.[/quote]
  
  And she really wouldn’t want to find out that she was the cause of it! Just stick it out and think of all the things you won’t get to do with her if you are dead. You won’t get to see her ride a bike or see her get married. When she finds you, you will be sooo happy you didn’t kill yourself. Just stick it out till then :)
  
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago – voted for by Sir Urgdu

• (1 vote) My father used to severely abuse me physically ever since I can remember.
  

  to get a job your going to have to make your self stand out. figure out somethings that you can do that not many people can do and max it up so it seems really important. also be really respectful so they know your a nice hard working person.
  hope this helped :D
  
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago – voted for by Cymoril

• (1 vote) Just when you think you’ve almost beatan all your problems a new worse one pops up.
  

  ten reasons:
  -ur funny
  -u can achieve a lot when your focused
  -it doesn’t take a ton of encouragement to get u to try something new
  -u have a lot going on, yet u still want to talk to me
  -u question things when u don’t believe them
  -u give good advice
  -u try to change whats happening in your life
  -u can admit that you love someone (i can’t even do that)
  -u praise other people and make them feal good about themselves
  -u know the right thing to say to cheer someone up
  (I’ve read some of your previous posts)
  
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago – voted for by Red Rabbit

• (1 vote) i cant sleep i need to be tireed so i wount be tierd in the morning!
  

  try reading ur math book or the dictionary. try to memorize everything you read. youl get so bored all youll want to do is sleep!! or try this relaxation technique:
  
  lay on your back with ur head on ur pillow (duh) and close ur eyes. then tighten every muscle you can. then, one by one, relax each muscle. if you do two at once, start over. by the time you accomplish this, youll b soooo tired (its a lot harder than it sounds) hope this helps :D
  
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago – voted for by orchoo

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• how come my parents are never there for me?
  

  [quote Sans]If your dad is working 2pm to 2am, it sounds like he has a blue-collar job. Holding onto a job in this economy is not easy. And working the night shift, he probably gets paid extra to make up for the sucky hours. I’ve worked overnights before. It’s not something a person would choose for no reason.[/quote]
  
  but his boss is always offoring him the chance to change to another hour, and hed get paid the same because its based on how long theyve been there and how long the shift is
  - written 2 years ago

• how come my parents are never there for me?
  

  [quote Sans]Before you get too down on them, I think you should talk to them too. Are they always “running to catch up” with financial problems, and working long hours to make ends meet? Sometimes parents get the notion that their teenager (I’m assuming you’re not 35) doesn’t want to be around them or hang out or want to be smothered with attention, so they back off. Tell them how you feel.[/quote]
  
  we don’t really have any financial problem like a lot of people are having right now, but my dads shift is from 2 pm to 2 the next morning, and he has to sleep in in the morning (which i understand) so i never get to see him unless its the weekend and they are not out shopping or i don’t have karate or im not out helping people with their homework for community service hours for NHS. but what hurts is that he could change shifts so he could be home and awake at the same time as us, but he just doesnt. and my mom is a teacher, so shes teaching while im at school and then she has to grade homework and help her studets and i just don’t fit into their schedule.
  - written 2 years ago

• how come my parents are never there for me?
  

  [quote Salt]You might just be on your own in some ways. Its not that unusual.[/quote]
  
  i know so how come it buggs me so much? i know there are other people whos parents are never home, and they don’t seem bothered by it like i am
  - written 2 years ago

• how come my parents are never there for me?
  

  [quote Kaibalanc]You could think about why… or you could take action. Tell them how you feel and ask them for more support. See if there are other people in your community who could be there for you (aunts, uncles, neighbors, friends and friends parents, big brothers big sisters programs).
  
  Parents are never perfect, and some really do not make the time for their kids like they should. Don’t be upset at them for it if you can help it, just find other people in your world who will be there for you and start communicating with your folks about how you feel.
  
  Good luck to you[/quote] thanks :) and I would tell them how i feel but they are never around, which is the whole problem
  - written 2 years ago

• how come my parents are never there for me?
  

  [quote Sans]Are your parents consumed with work? Do they really neglect you, or are they trying to teach you to make your own decisions?[/quote]
  
  I don’t think its intentional, but ya they are always at work, and i hardly ever see them, and i do almost everything by myself so I don’t think thats the reason either
  - written 2 years ago

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