Hi Fuba - It is so nice to meet you. COngratulation on the birth of your daugther. her name is beatiful. I know it has been rough with her in the hospital but she sounds like she will be ok. In this day and medical age they can do alot to help premimes. You are right she is diffently a fighter. You
I just read and replied toyour post. Your grandma and aunt are helping her. Sheis very lucky to have you. There are many babies that have no one. She has 2 angels looking after her and a mother who would do anything for her. Her situation is not your fault at all. Bad things happen and we just need to deal with them. She is going to be fine.
I also read you profile. I see your favorite sport is wrestling. That is mine too! :)
I am leaving this message for every one on my friends list. It so that you will know I have no ill feelings towards any of the normal users of the website.
Below is a message I sent to Erric to explain my reasons for leaving.
Thankyou for your response to my post. I will try to explain why I feel I can not be a part of your website.
It is not to complicated to understand I hope.
The modinations post in my opinion was a farce and wasn’t thought out nor was it neccecary. While it was running as a post I left a message saying that the members should ask the person they were nominating if they were prepared to be a moderator.
This is because hmf in particular didn’t want to be one, put on the post that she didn’t want to be one, yet members still kept voting for her. She had to spell it out that she didn’t want to be a moderator again that she would not want the post.
I did not want the post and didn’t want people voting for me, so I asked that the members asked first if the person they were nominating was prepared to do the job.
It is also my oppinion that the now admins and new moderators new in advance that they had already been chosen and that they had already accepted.
There were a number of members that could see that this post was causing anger and resentment between and with each other, just to give you one example look at tap dancers reply. There were others like it but the reasons were different.
I have no interest in who was picked for these particular posts although every one of them is a very long term user.
I also think that you already know that the only moderators post I was intereted in was one that could delete the bad posts that were being put on the site at the week ends in particular. Again I would not have accepted the post if asked, I know that many members would be interested.
If you can or want to try to convince me that the whole thing was for the good of the website I would consider trying to help again.
I have though lost all faith in the admins and mods, hence my leaving.
You had the curtesy to answere my post, you deserve to have an answer.
I hope you come back to us. Your post yesterday frightened me. Please let me know if there is anything I can help you with. You are a blessed angel. God bless you in your trials.
Freakofnature,
Thank you so much for the nomination. I am sorry I wasn’t on when you left me the shout. I should be on for a while if you would like to chat.
Thepp,
Well it looks like I might not be going home tomorrow after all. I just called Adam and asked him if he was still picking me up from the bus station and he said no. He has plans with one of his friends. I called my friend Michelle and she said she has dinner plans tomorrow night. She has had f***ing plans every night since she met this guy and she never has time for me. What freinds I have!!!!!!!!
It’s ok Thepp. I just spoke to the people I need to and it looks like things are going to be rolling right along. Just please keep your fingers crossed that I get on that bus tomorrow morning. Hopefull I will be sitting at my home dek by 10 pm tomorrow. Talk to you soon.
I am around for a litle while at the moment I am dealing with some thing else. I promise to come back to you as soon as I can. It could be some time before I can manage that.
I don’t want to stay here!!! My family is driving me insane. It seems that everything revolves around me damn sister. I was supposed to get things done today but of course my sister gets her damn way!!!
heymala:
The stuff in the garage is stuff I really need. I have been without it for a while but it is mostly my kitchenware and stuff along those lines. I have been borrowing stuff from people to replace these things but I have been told that I need to return them as soon as I get my own stuff or am able to buy new things.
I am in Staten Island and that is where the stuff is.
I don’t think my gram did make a profit as stupid as it may sound. I heard my mom say she sold for $500,000 but the house that is being built is over $600,000. Don’t ask me why they would do that but that is just how my family is. They live outside their means. And even if she did make a small profit, I would not ask her to help me because they have helped me so much already. I don’t think she would help cause she wants me to move back home but it’s not going to happen. Also, my grandpa passed away recently and my family didn’t have enough money to put up a gravestone. I would want them to do that before I even consider asking them to help me.
A couple of questions about this.
# 1 How long have you lived without this stuff?
# 2 Which part in Ny does this need to be picked up from?
# 3 If your gram sold a house in ny that she owned for a while, she should have made a profit?
Hi Lillies,
Feeling better because it is Friday. This is the last day I have to babysit. Still having a hard time finding a way to get my stuff back home. And I went to visit my gram last night and cried because it took 5 of us to move her because she refuses to move. The doctors say that if she doesn’t start moving, they are going to put her in rehab and she is refusing that too. How are you today?
I am glad that your life seems to be generaly on an upward trend, you have to keep on having a possative attitude even when you are feeling down. Sometimes sleeping on a problem ,can give you strength to fight harder the next day, to overcome your problems.
I am still keeping your gram, yourself and all off your family in my prayers.
Keep on being kind to yourself that has it’s own rewards. One of which is, that you will find you are being kinder to everone else.
Thepp, have you ever gotten so fustrated with the way things seem to go that you just got tired? That is how I am right now, I am so tired that I don’t have the energy to do anything. I am lucky I can keep my eyes open to type. I’m at the point I just want to give up again :’(
Thats fine, I want you to keep searching until you find something much cheaper than your last quote. Look in your telephone books and local newspapers.
Keep writing your replies in your own shout box it’s easier for us to talk that way.
You will need to find the cheapest local firm that you can. You will need to do that before you can move on with this problem.
Thanks fubartigger. I would like to ask you to send another message if you dont mind.
The baby is being tested on Monday to see if the doctors will be able to opperate or not on the baby.
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