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• i need help im gay and i think im gonna cry i need like serious nhelp!
  

  @ Seven
  
  1. Thanks
  
  2. Because of the difference between sexual attraction and sexual activity and the risks and additional problems that activity provides and the need for support and education
  
  3. Excellent question. I have no idea - I thought I read that he wasn’t happy about his weight but realise now that I was actually reading another post when I wrote this bit. Ooops. Sorry!!!
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• why are wiccans hated?
  

  I don’t hate Wiccans
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

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  I wouldn’t be surprised if some sort of ‘memories’ are passed genetically as part of nature’s way to warn the generation after from certain experiences (e.g. where home is, or to avoid eating insects with yellow and black stripes, etc), and think that it may have an affect on people’s reincarnation experiences.
  
  In terms of philosophical possibility, I don’t think so. One thing I’m quite sure of is that I am me, that I have always been me whilst I am and that I always will be me at the core. What a nightmare to have to then be someone else!! I’m happy being me.
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• its realigion.
  

  Why do you want to be different - is it to be noticed more?
  
  Be patient and be yourself, don’t try to construct a facade as that’s a barrier to you and you’ll have to take it down at some point in your life.
  
  Hope it all works out.
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• i need help im gay and i think im gonna cry i need like serious nhelp!
  

  There is a difference between feeling sexually attracted to men and actually partaking in sexual activity with them.
  
  1. There is nothing wrong with feeling the way you do. God loves gay people as much as he loves Christ Himself. Anyone who beats you up for the way you feel are losers - don’t beat yourself up about it as well.
  
  2. Actually taking the next step though and gratifying your sexual urges is more serious. Relationships that are sexual (no matter whether gay, heterosexual or other!) affect at least one human person (yourself) in a deep way and put you in contact with new environments and risks. You should therefore get support from your family and true friends to deal with the serious issues that your sexuality may pose for you. Don’t worry, you’ll be okay.
  
  3. There is also nothing wrong with liking food. If however you have trouble controlling your appetite and your weight is making you unhappy, why not get help, not necessarily to lose weight, but to come to terms with who you are. Unless you are able to accept your own identity, your strengths and weaknesses, and until you can open up enough to get support, you are likely to be unhappy.
  
  In summary:
  
  a) Don’t feel unloved - God loves you, your family loves you, your true friends love you, don’t hate yourself.
  b) Don’t worry - it’ll be okay.
  c) Get support to explore who you are, who you want to be, and how to make the right choices.
  d) Don’t make major decisions until you’ve accepted the above
  
  I’ll keep you in my prayers,
  
  Best wishes
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

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