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• What helped me get over a crush that I had for a long time was realizing that I *could* love him, that it was okay to love him, maybe not in such a romantic posted (10 months) ago
  helped me get over a crush that I had for a long time was realizing that I *could* love him, that i…

• I’ve never been religious, but now I feel like I want to believe, but I can’t. posted (11 months, 2 weeks) ago
  I feel happier when I tell myself that there is a God who is watching over me, and making sure my li…

• I really felt some chemistry with a guy I recently met, but I get the feeling that he flirts with everyone he meets, and I’ve been wrong before…I’m posted (11 months, 3 weeks) ago
  really felt some chemistry with a guy I recently met, but I get the feeling that he flirts with eve…

• If I really really love a shirt but it’s a little too small for me, should I keep it or give it away? posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  ? I’m cleaning out my closet and having a hard time letting go……

• How do I say this more clearly and considerately? posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  : I feel like we’re not as good friends as we used to be, and it’s because there’…

• How do you tell someone that you like them? posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  That seems to be the typical answer to all the “I like this guy but he doesn’t like me&…

• A lot of nights I get tired early…like 9 o clock…then I stay up to midnight because I don’t feel like going to bed…and then I’m posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
  lot of nights I get tired early…like 9 o clock…then I stay up to midnight because I don…

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• (1 vote) i cannot concentrate to study… i go online all
  

  Tell yourself that you can only go online after you do an hour of homework. Snacks can help…for some reason eating makes it easier to work…=P But only snacks or music while you are working. Find a friend to study with who will make you stay off the computer.
  
  Good luck!
  
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago – voted for by jay_zee_00

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• my problem is i’m really shy, and because of
  

  There’s only one way to stop being shy - push yourself beyond your comfort zone. Imagine what you would say or do if you weren’t shy, then actually do it. You can start small. I wanted to give a guy a hug. If I let myself be shy, I would just stand there and talk to him. I put my arm around him for about a second, and yeah, it embarrassed me a little, but I felt so much better than if I just let myself be shy. Hope that helps, good luck!
  - written 7 months ago

• My bf is 20 i have no idea what toget him for V-Day….
  

  A DVD or book….or a hug (one size fits all) =)
  - written 7 months ago

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  You can be fat and miserable or skinny and miserable. How happy you are doesn’t really have to do with your weight. Queen Latifah definitely isn’t skinny, but she looks like she loves her body and has a great time with her life.
  
  Do something that makes you happy - watch a funny movie, read a book, knit - whatever. I hope you feel better.
  - written 7 months ago

• Hi help,
  

  I’ve been thinking that too…I don’t know where I’m going to college yet, but I applied to different schools than my friends and it’s pretty depressing knowing I’m going to have to leave in just a few months…I know I’ll still be in touch, but it definitely won’t be the same. Good luck…
  - written 7 months ago

• What if I like a girl and she likes me but doesn’t want to go out with me.So do i go out with another girl or do I try again?
  

  Why doesn’t she want to go out with you? Does she just want to be friends? Keep in mind that girls are complicated and she might have issues with friends, other guys, ex-boyfriends, etc. It would be best to just talk to her about how she feels.
  - written 10 months ago

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