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• (1 vote) I’m starting to feel very nervous.
  

  I would like to say I am very sorry to find out about the news you have received on the house. I would also like to say I am not trying to be a smart *** but I know it will be hard but these things happen for a reason and I totally believe you are meant for bigger things than living in Ohio sorry to say and not to offend anyone living there but the universe is allowing her to be free to travel to go to California maybe as Aries said but maybe that is the divine plan. Like I said I am your friend so don’t fight it Now is your time live out your dreams be who you wanted to be when you were young and dreamed of being an Astronaut, firefighter, artist, singer, actress, lawyer, doctor, or teacher now is your time you have no more strings, no attachments, and no commitments. I feel you are able to be anything you set your mind to you are a Survivor I believe in you. Your friend always, Tony.
  
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago – voted for by Aries

• (1 vote) how can u get over someone who u loved when u went out with them and still like them?
  

  Hi this is a hard question because I have found when you believe you love someone you will endure anything because just being around that person makes you feel so good. So don’t get over that person realize you have these feelings and it is ok to be in love with someone but realize you may not always get those feelings back from the one you love and it is perfectly acceptable. My grandmother once told me if you put a mouse in a maze and put the reward behind 1 of 3 doors the mouse will go to that door and eventually move to the other doors for the reward if it is moved. Humans on the other hand will only go to that one door for the reward but as humans we can make a choice to try another door. Make that choice it is your choice. I hope this helps your situations some and eases your pain.
  
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago – voted for by ciaran1

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• POEM: LIFE
  

  Very nice I especially love that we are able to discuss your poem and find out directly from you what you meant or was your inspiration behind this really good poem? Would you possibly tell me a little bit about the passage “Life does break our soul” I found that interesting? Thank you. Sincerely, Tony
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• It’s mah Birthday!
  

  Happy Birthday glad it was a good one.
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• POEM: BEAUTY
  

  Very nice I liked the poem very much.
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• I’m starting to feel very nervous.
  

  I would like to say I am very sorry to find out about the news you have received on the house. I would also like to say I am not trying to be a smart *** but I know it will be hard but these things happen for a reason and I totally believe you are meant for bigger things than living in Ohio sorry to say and not to offend anyone living there but the universe is allowing her to be free to travel to go to California maybe as Aries said but maybe that is the divine plan. Like I said I am your friend so don’t fight it Now is your time live out your dreams be who you wanted to be when you were young and dreamed of being an Astronaut, firefighter, artist, singer, actress, lawyer, doctor, or teacher now is your time you have no more strings, no attachments, and no commitments. I feel you are able to be anything you set your mind to you are a Survivor I believe in you. Your friend always, Tony.
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• what can i do to be a good friend to my friends
  

  Hi I would start with respect, trust, and lastly let them know you value their friendship. I will try to give some examples: Respect is key if they confide in you about any subject be serious and listen actively to what they say and respect their opinions. Feel free to debate on topics but also agree to compromise on some issues. Trust, if they tell you something and ask you not to tell don’t kiss and tell. Let them know you are there friend by making time to go to lunch, have a drink, or just make yourself available to chat and hang out. I hope this might help. Sincerely, a friend.
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

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