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For one i am not living beyond my means, my house is worth $60,000 i said i owed 104,000 on it. because my husband refinanced too many times and took out a second mortgage that is how it became 104,ooo not that it is worth that and i amliving inluxury, i am wearing clothes that are 10 years old , i have been looking for a job for the last year and half, there are no jobs in my town. if you hadnt’ noticed teh economy sucks!! or maybe you are just so well off you hadn’t noticed that people all around you are out of work?? you call your self a help.com site, it is more like a condem.com site, get off your high horses and get your noses out of the air and look around you. i have tried and am on all kinds of assistance, if it were food stamps we wouldnt eat, if it werent’ for wsos we woudn’t have our utilities paid. if it weren’t for government insurance my daughter wouldnt’ get her prenatal care and teh baby wouldnt’ get his shots and dr.s visits. if it weren’t for hand me downs for others the baby wouldn’t have clothes,bed,etc.
So before you jump to conclusions about living beyond means, ask before you jump . as you see you fell on your face this time. and yes i can repay as soon as possible , which means, let me explain , as soon as my income starts coming in from working from home , and i may only be able to pay a little bit at a time,but yes i woudl pay it back none the less.
So thank you so much for your condensending answers, i hope you never need help.

well you know what we have both tried getting jobs i have been trying to get a job for the last year and half , no i am not living beyond my means, and no i do not live in a 100.000 dollar house, that is what is owed onit cause my ex husband took out a second mortgage on the house. the house it self is only worth 60,000 and yes i woudl and wil pay back anyone any amount that any one would help with since i am working from home, but not enough to pay off my loan complete adn that is the only way i can keep from loosingit, i have tried and am on any and all public assistance that is available to me, which is food assistance and i signed up for housing assistance which i am on a waiting list for 2 1/2 years . my daughter has also been trying to find a job, and go to school plus take care of her 6 month old son and make dr. appointments for her. it isnt’ as easy you suggest either one. may you never get where i am at or many other people are at. and in our town there are no jobs, even fast food places or gas stations are not hiring, we do the best we can with what we have, we do with out because of no money, and if that is living beyond means, then i guess we are, but we eat cause we have food assistance, our utilities get paid through wsos. the baby’s clothes are from hand me downs. we dont have name brand anything, wearing clothes that are 8 - 10 years old. so tell me we are living beyond our means on nothing!!! so until you are in my shoes, lving the way i am living don’t you dare say i am living beyond my means. i live in a hosue that is only worth 60,000 and all because my husband took out a second mortgage and refinanced the house 3 times is the only reason the loan is that high. think and ask before making uncarin callous statements like that. adn you call yourself a help.com site?? really it shoudl be changed to snob,jumping to conclusion site.

i have my applications and resumes out in every place, every town there is to have it! we are not legaly seperated or divorced, we did come to some kind of agreement where i felt pressured to sign, because he knows i can not afford a lawyer at all, but it has not been filed and it wont be as long as i dont go to court, and i dont’ intend to because he already hasn’t kept his part that he had agreed to, he was to make payments on the blazer i owned and he didnt’ it was repossesed 3 weeks ago, and he lied about keeping up the payments, with the late fees he owes on it it is 1,200!! to get it back so it will stay where it is since he isn’t getting it out, itisnt’ worth that much money!! and no, the seperation was not my fault, and i am not sure where you are from, but around where i am from the economy isn’t getting better, i am not giving up, i am hoping someone out there will help. as for my house if i dont come up with the money topay it off i loose it july 25th, so i am already looking for a place to rent, and signed up with metropolitan housing that helps with the rent, hopefully i will hear from them soon, if it were just me, i woudln’t mind so much but it isn’t it also involves my 5 month grandson, my 16 year old grandson, my daughter and her unborn baby.

anyone know how you get a grant , i want to start a business, that i know would go over well in our community, any community really but all the material i look up on line or at the library only tells you what kind of grants you can apply for not how to apply and the cd that is “free” you can order, is a joke, my brother in law ordered it, and it didnt work the way it claimed and he was then charged 19.95 a month til he sent it back. so that was a scam. thanks/

i love the Beatles, they were and stil are the greatest!! i really liked all the songs they came with, but my two favorite are well make that three, hey jude, in my life and imagine.

it is perfectly normal and why shouldn’t you do that if that is what you want to do. live your dream now and don’t settle for what others think you should do, you follow your dreams and heart!!!!!