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Ms. Holly! My goodness I haven’t heard from you for a while. I’ve been a little busy but I still come on here once in a while. Yeah, I did go on a date, LoL. But it’s more like a friendship thing, I guess. So that means I have no Valentine’s Day really! Sad, huh? Haha. How have you been?

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Hey, friend! Yeah, it has been a while. I’ve been a little busy lately, but I’m still here either way. How have you been? :-)

(: Best Wishes for a Happy New Year :)

I notice that it’s been a week since you replied to any posts here — so, thinking in terms of addiction, that’s as far as you’d have to force yourself to be able to quit smoking, and then just really remember to choose to never do it after that no matter the temptation, just to be free and healthier. Sorry I can’t tell you how to get to the first days free, that’s too subtle or too personal or something.

Hi! Long time no talk

hey.. sorry if i haven’t been online lately. i’ve been kinda busy with my friend that we sort of adopted. lol! we’re both looking for work so we could move out. anyways, i miss you.. i need advices badly, but i cant go online much now a days. but when i do, i’ll give you a shout out. :)

LoL. :-)

Awww. K. Sweet dreams, Holly. Talk to you later, and take care. :-)

:-) good im glad, didnt mean to sound all mummy there lol just you become a good friend and im a worrier lol. You need to get back on facebook chris, its much easier to talk on there than on here.. here is my link incase you get bored
http://www.facebook.com/#!/profile.ph…

I don’t actually do that too much anymore! I just have a drink when it sounds good, really. There’s nothing much to drink about besides pure boredom. Like I said before, though. Pretty soon I’ll be going out more. So social-drinking will give me a more legitimate excuse. Haha. Don’t worry. I have no plans of going anywhere. I’ve said it before: You’re STUCK with me. So get used to it. :-)

You totally overdid it, Holly. No more tequila shots for you! Mmm. I beer sounds good right now. :-)

Yeah, that’s it! He’s like a make-believe person like the tooth-fairy. They call him The Sandman because he sprinkles some kind of sand in your eyes to make you tired. Haha.

LoL, no. You haven’t heard of the Sandman?

You’ve gotta do what you’ve gotta do. Here comes the Sandman. LoL….

LoL. You’re too funny. Yup. Here’s a toast to leaving all of the bad things behind us. Cheers. :-)

I tried getting over my ex-girlfriend in the same way. I couldn’t even go through with it. So basically I haven’t been with anyone since. I actually did get alcohol poisoning a few times since, but I never went to the hospital. The most difficult part of getting over someone is no doubt the control that they still have over your heart. Now, I sound “gay”, too. Haha. Either way, it’s not fun to go through. Nice people like you certainly don’t deserve to be mistreated that way. We’re both a couple of delicate snails, damn it. LoL.

As for the snails, I can’t bring myself to eat one! They’re such defenseless creatures. Whenever I see one in my path, I always pick it up and set it down at its travel destination so no one steps on it. LoL.

I’ll summarize it as best as I can. We met at school. We were together from March 2008 to January 2010. In January, she said she wanted a break. She saw me again once in April, and then disappeared. Then she called me in July, and admitted to cheating on me in February. It was with a guy I had suspected before. Up until late September, we were talking sporadically. Although she told me that she still wanted me in her life, I could tell that she was hiding something. About a month ago, she posed Facebook pictures of her with her new boyfriend - the same guy she cheated with. We had a blow-up after that, and stopped talking altogether. I basically wasted this whole year waiting for her, so it was very painful. I came here by accident, trying to see if anyone could relate. Then I started helping other people and I kind of forgot about my own problems. In doing so, I’ve found more people that can relate than ever. I actually just helped a guy about 15 minutes ago who is going through the same thing that I did. It’s nice to know that you’re not alone. :-)

Don’t worry, be happy. LoL.

Haha. You posted in your box, too. LoL. No, I’m not uncomfortable. It’s rare that someone sends me a message out of nowhere. Someone sent me one earlier this week telling me that I inspired them. I had no idea what to say! It was so nice. It’s probably still there. :-)

ooh sounds nice actually, i might have to try it one day… sorry i got the wrong idea about your friend lol i hope i didnt make u feel uncomfortable or anything :)

I used to drink liquor like water, but now all I can stand is beer. I’ll pretty much drink any kind besides malt liquor. Gross. LoL. If I must have a mixed drink, though, it’ll be JD & Coke or Vodka/Cranberry.

I know, right? That’s probably another reason why I don’t go. I’d only go for the bar, and I can drink pretty much anywhere else with no problem. So there’s not much of a point in going besides the atmosphere, really. So, I’m curious. What’s your favorite drink? :-)

Yeah, we would have fun. We’d alienate everyone else with our sense of humor alone. LoL. I “drunk-dance” too. Not too much, but I don’t have the nerve to dance at all without something alcoholic in my system. I’ll bet the clubs over there are better than the ones here, anyways. Something crazy always happens at the clubs here, and they end up shutting them down for a few months, or closing them altogether. Party animals. :-)

Awww. You got all dolled-up & everything? I feel bad for you, now. I’ll go do my make-up, too. It’ll only take me 3 hours, k? Haha. Why haven’t I been to a club? Well, I don’t really dance and I wouldn’t go just to talk to girls so, yeah. I’d probably just hang out @ the bar or something. :-)

You have the WRONG idea, Holly. Haha. If it makes you feel any better, I’m staying in tonight, too. I’ve never even been clubbing, if you can believe that. I know, I’m boring. :-)

Well, you can have a laptop party! Just put up some decorations and play loud music. You can pretend to act drunk and pass out, too. LoL.

OMG wrong box. LoL.

Haha. Yeah that, and I ate way too much. I slept until noon. I hate doing that! Are you supposed to go out with friends, but they’re being slow?

Hey, Holz. :-)
Today is good. Just recovering from yesterday. Haha. Aww, what happened with your plans?

Awww. Get some rest, sleepyhead. I’ll be on for a little bit tomorrow! Take care, and sweet dreams. :-)

You can fix cars while dancing. :-)

Yup. I can’t wait until I’m old enough to drink. It’s gonna be awesome. LoL.

Yup. I can’t wait until I’m old enough to drink. It’s gonna be awesome. LoL.

I’m older than you are! I’ll be 27 in March. Eek. I don’t want to be any day closer to 30, but oh well. 30 is the new 20! :-)

No! Haha. I like your current pic. The flower was nice, though. I mean, who doesn’t love a flower? Unless you have allergies. :-)

Wait - The flower? LoL….

Wait - The flower? LoL….

You had me at “Hello”. LoL. Silly. :-)

Even if I had 10,000 friends I’d still be logged into help.com on my mobile. LoL. How could I forget about you? You make this fun for me, too. Nobody else gets my jokes, either. I’m sorry to tell you, but you’re stuck with me. Haha.

I don’t, do I? I do surprisingly well with people despite my shy nature. I finally submitted the paperwork to actually get PAID for the work I’m doing. LoL. So that means I’ll probably go out a few times, either to a pool hall or a bar or something. I’m not sure where the “cool” areas are around here, but I’ll find them. And don’t be spiking my tea with any liquor, Ms. Sneaky. Haha.

Nah, just by myself. I still haven’t met anyone up here. I’m such a loner. LoL. It’s ok, though. I like lemon with my tea, BTW. I’ll pick up the newspaper while I’m on my way. Thank you. :-)

Yeah. I’m all into Janis Joplin right now. “A Woman Left Lonely”, “Summertime”, just to name a few. I’m into EVERY kind of music, so most likely I’d be into that. Good stuff. I wish I had some tea! Maybe later on. I’m going to grab a beer for now. Haha.

Ooh, yes. Post a pic if possible. I love the snow. You had fun today? Awesome. You should always do something like that everyday if possible. It takes the edge off the work week for sure. Haha. Yeah it is a little depressing here sometimes, but I can’t let it get to me. I’ve been playing 60’s music all day so I have this whole “smiley-face” vibe going through me. LoL. So what are you about to do? Just relax & stuff?

Awww. I wondered what happened to you. I haven’t heard from you in like 5 years! How are the husband and kids doing? Haha. My day is going great. I’m very relaxed. It’s nice & sunny outside. I’m probably going to have a drink in a bit. We’re all going to the store to get the food for Thanksgiving later on. The stores are going to be SO crowded. Fun stuff, though. How are you today?

k, later. Thx.