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• Parents are so useless. posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  If the point of them being around is to do nothing and make me feel worse than I already do then wh…

• Are anxiety attacks always so dramatic? posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  Like they seem to be on tv or when someone else describes them. I was fine all day, bumming it out …

• Night Owl. posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  I do…

• So what happens when there isnt anything to reply with? posted (1 year, 11 months) ago
  Say you were having a convo with someone you’ve been wanting to talk to for like forever and …

• Oh joy! posted (1 year, 12 months) ago
  I’ve finally written something after soo long. I think I’ve had the longest writer̵…

• How can I deal with someone who doesn’t take his word seriously. posted (2 years) ago
  He’d say he’s coming over and get you so excited to see him. And then he doesn’t…

• Hiiii. posted (2 years) ago
  …

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SeesaChic's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) Parents are so useless.
  

  No “I” am not the one in “his” or “her” house(not their). Assumptions assumptions. I live with my grandma becuase they didn’t want me to live with them and I guess things just stuck this way. I’m pretty sure I’m coming off as rude at this point and I apologize if anyone feels “offended” but I have no other way to sugarcoat it. I’ve been doing that for way too long. Blaming myself for way too long. I just need help and I realize that now but I don’t know how. And the ones who I thought I was supposed to ask aren’t helping me. So what now?
  
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago – voted for by jasonmasters_rs

• (1 vote) All I want right now is a friend.
  

  Talk to people in your classes. Observe them(non creepily) and see who you think would be a nice person and talk to him or her. Say hi and they’d probably say hi back or just smile at him or her and they will usually say something. The conversations will be short and awkward at times but you have to get past it. Sometimes you’ll meet someone who is so friendly you guys might hit it off instantly. But you won’t make or have any friends if you don’t reach out. People are usually curious about you when you’re new if you speak up and make sure you’re being noticed. I’ve done this at every single new school I’ve been to and it was slow at some points but I eventually made friends especially when I made it a point to talk to other people clearly(don’t mumble :P) and just be myself. Hiding out or avoiding people out of anxiety or insecurity will not make things better or easier because at the end of the year you will still be lonely. Remember that your opinion of yourself and the voice you hear in your head saying negative things about you is just that, in your head. Nobody thinks as badly of you as yourself so don’t assume that people don’t like you.
  
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago – voted for by jinnga

• (1 vote) do boys care if a girl has a bit of a chubby tummy & a non-firm bum?
  

  Haha yeah you’re having sex for the first time, I assume he’s got some worries of his own. From what I’ve heard, a lot of guys prefer some extra skin as opposed to a twig.
  
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago – voted for by Kmax

• (1 vote) @ What Age Do You Think Is A Good Age To Loose Your Virginity?
  

  [quote Anonymous]wtf…. i should be when u want to not at a particular age. this is crazy!
  
  and no sex before marriage i think i dumb! because sex is an important part of a relationship and if you are not sexually compatible with ur partner one of you will end up cheating later on, or it will cause problems later on. you should lose ur virginity whn u are ready and when u wwant to….[/quote]
  
  Sexually compatible? Sex is all about experience and doing what the other person likes. If you practice enough with the person and you’re willing to learn then it’ll work. That never made sense to me about “not clicking”. And besides, people still cheat whether they’re getting everything at home or not.
  
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago – voted for by Bio Gal

• (1 vote) No makeup:(
  

  Beat everybody to the punch. Show up to school with a mask on. Problem solved.
  
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago – voted for by bearbubble

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• beware virus………
  

  Now answer my question :)
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago

• What do you consider is “cheating”?
  

  What is coitus? I think cheating is any intimate physical contact with emotional backing. If you have to think whether or not you’re cheating you probably are, vice versa.
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago

• beware virus………
  

  [quote Chima]well well well Dr Ralph is a teenager who think masculinity is in the size of his **** instead of his brain hahaha remember the hours have the largest one yet you don’t see ladies dating a hours … use your brain young man not your **** ;)[/quote]
  
  Lololol “young man”, you know what they say about ASSuming! ;D Do brains really differ in size? I thought people just said that to be smart.
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago

• is dubstep big in the US?
  

  [quote Anonymous]Actually Skrillex isn’t considered Dubstep and he even said he doesn’t consider himself as dubstep. He does a lot of house and Complextro tho. I believe dubstep is mainly a fad going on right now.[/quote]
  
  That’s so confusing though, don’t skrillex songs have dubstep beats?
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago

• if your mood was an animal, what animal would your mood be today?
  

  Craapp… Lol I’m on my phone, that did not come out as planned.I wad going to say Cody Cody Cody… are you calling me a hobbit?
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago

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