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• I am extremely confused.. posted (1 year) ago
  My girlfriend and I met in high school and have been dating since senior year. We have now been dati…

• Here’s a car question. posted (1 year, 6 months) ago
  I’m looking to get a new car; specifically a luxury sport sedan, preferably under 40k. I think…

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• (1 vote) I have a question.
  

  Since you’re speaking in chemistry terms, I’ll give a chemical explanation..
  
  Your skin feels cooler because when a fan blows on your skin, sweat evaporates off of it. Even if you can’t feel it being wet, there’s always at least a little bit of wetness there. When the moving air particles collide with your skin they do transfer some of that kinetic energy, but it goes both into your skin and into your sweat. As the kinetic energy of your sweat increases, more and more molecules of it gain enough energy to break free from the liquid form and evaporate.
  
  Normally, when you put kinetic energy into something, it will become hotter. If what you’re heating is water, it’ll start to evaporate faster and faster until you reach the boiling point, at which point everything kind of maxes out and it evaporates at maximum rate while not gaining any temperature. When something changes state (such as sweat from liquid to gas), it needs an extra push beyond the normal kinetic energy. In the case of a state change from liquid to gas, this extra energy push is called the “Enthalpy of Vaporization”.
  
  Other than just kinetic energy, substances have a property of “Enthalpy”. I’m not sure how much chemistry you’ve done, so I’ll skip the mathematical definition of enthalpy, and basically just describe it as heat, which is basically a form of energy. Don’t confuse this with kinetic energy though! Enthalpy is more like the inherent energy something has due to its chemical properties (one of these properties is physical state: solid, liquid, gas). A substance in a gaseous state will always have more energy than it would in its liquid state, and this extra energy comes from the Enthalpy of Vaporization. And where does the actual energy for the Enthalpy of Vaporization come from? Yep, your skin. It steals the energy from the heat of your skin, and therefore cools you down.
  
  Sorry for making this so unnecessarily long, but I hope this helps!
  
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago – voted for by Jeff

• (1 vote) My boyfriend and I tryed to have sex but it hurt anytime he pushed his penis into me, what can i do?
  

  I think you have one of three problems:
  1)It might hurt because he’s just too big to fit comfortably. If you don’t usually engage in sexual activity it could just be that you’re not used to having anything that big inside of you and you just need to go slowly and get used to it.
  
  2)It might hurt because there’s no lubrication. Normally your vagina should be producing its own lubrication, but sometimes it doesn’t produce enough, or any at all. In this case, try pre-lubed condoms (you should be using condoms regardless!), or just buy lube separately.
  
  3)This is the least likely, but also probably the “worst” scenario, though none of these cases are horrible. You might have a sexual disorder. What type of pain are you having? There’s a handful of sexual disorders and dysfunctions that could be the cause of vaginal pain during intercourse, like Female Sexual Arousal Disorder, Dyspareunia or Vaginismus. If your problem is this last case, you’d need to visit a doctor to help you out.
  
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago – voted for by Jeff

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• Does Marijuana make a person want to hug, kiss or do anything sexual?
  

  When my girlfriend smokes she tends to be more affectionate than normal, and in normal circumstances she is not a very openly emotional person (except in the right circumstances ;]). When I smoke I tend to be introspective and a little less social, and I rarely feel like doing anything sexual. It affects different people different ways. For example for me I get the munchies and food tastes great. My girlfriend still gets the munchies but says all food tastes bland and horrible when she’s high. It just depends on the person.
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

• *attension; “this post is closed, your kind replies for this post are no longer needed, thank you!
  

  Yes he did. His name is Milo Turk. There was also a guy named Paul Marturano who performed the “stalker song” to Paula Abdul. They both know each other and both went to audition knowing that they were joking. My girlfriend is related to the stalker song guy, and I see both of them somewhat regularly. Their point was to be as creepy and weird as possible to get semi-famous. It worked since they’re making money off of their own CD’s now. Milo is a social worker and appears regularly on the radio on I forget what station in NJ.
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

• MY neck
  

  You’re probably right; the most likely cause is that you just slept funny. It should go away on its own after a few days. If it’s still around after a week or so I’d say visit a chiropractor or regular doctor. If you know anyone that knows how to give effective massages, have them massage your neck/shoulder area and it should speed things up and make it more bearable. If you wanna try yourself, try feeling around or the muscle between your neck and shoulder on the right side. Chances are that its cramped up and tight. Try to feel around for a lump that kinda hurts when you press on it. That is probably your cramped up muscle. Knead it and massage it as if you’re kneading dough and it’ll help loosen it up. It might hurt at first, but afterwards it’ll feel better.
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

• Pain.Parents.Abuse.Runaway.Trouble.Pray…
  

  If you’ve personally witnessed him doing other abusive acts (such as the racial slurs and the choking) then the police will probably believe you more than your mom does. Especially if any of your siblings can back you up on it. Your mom might have her judgment clouded by the fact that he’s nice to her and she likes him back, even if he is a bad person. Be sure you KNOW he’s bad before you do something like call the police on him, and be sure you’re not doing it just because you don’t like it. Do it because he is a danger to your and your family’s welfare, but make completely sure he is as bad as you think beforehand.
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

• Here’s a car question.
  

  [quote skies]I sell cars. I personally think the CTS is the bank for the buck. They did wonders with that car in 08. Let me know what you decide.[/quote]
  
  I was hoping there would be someone knowledgeable with the CTS. I used to be obsessed with it when I saw GM’s redesign. I love the horsepower, the look of it, and the interior looks so classy it puts the Benz to shame. However, I’ve heard it also bigger than any of the other cars. I haven’t had the time to even find my closest Caddy dealership, so my question is, is it really as much of a behemoth as reviews make it out to be? I don’t drive that often any more, so I’m not as much concerned about interior room and comfort (I’m sure all these cars are comfy enough) as much as I am about how pleasurable a drive it is. Does the size really affect it that much? Thanks.
  
  
  
  [quote Dan TL]You luck son of a gun, I wish I could even test drive those things, they would just look at me and be like “you can’t afford these cars”. I really think the Audi’s are really nice, one of my goals to own a audi A8[/quote]
  
  Audis are REALLY nice, especially the top of the line ones (aka the ones I’ll never be able to afford), but the problem I have with the lower-line ones is that the A4 is priced about the same as my other options, but isn’t as athletic or powerful as them, while the A5/S5 are really pushing it with my price range.
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

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