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:D Good luck :)
I’m praying for you and your family

:) If it works that is all that matters. :) At least there is a chance that it will only be temporary.

I’m sorry to hear that. Does she need insulin or just to monitor her sugar?

Oh in the case of your wedding… I would still be happy to preform the cerimony if you would like… but there is a snag on my end at the moment…

The process of registering the ULC (my church) here in Ontario has run into a little snafu… Though with luck it will be resolved before your wedding I want to give you the heads up…

If the regstration is not completed by then I cannot preform binding marriages by Ontario law… So you would need to check to find out if the laws of where you get married apply or if the laws of your home state apply…

Because as I understand I can preform marriages in the US…

Diabetes… Well I’m not sure which type they have but my Grandparents have it and they can get on alright with it, just monitoring their sugar intake… But as I understand The type that requires insulin can be fairly bad…

Me too. The doctors think that I should be getting over the flu I have now any day now.
I’m starting to feel better. I just hope I dont get something else :S

Sick :/ One thing after another. I have basically been with something or another giving me flu like symptoms since before Christmas :/

That’s good :) I’ve just seen a few posts with your anon symbol, but you haven’t stayed on… unless your anon symbol has changed… anyway glad things are going well. :)

Josh everything okay?

Thank you :D

Hey Josh, what state and City do you live in again? I’m verifying information with the government to ensure that I would be able to marry you?

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how go the wedding preps?

I sent you an e-mail, :D

Just so you know you can show people your e-mail address in the friends section here on help. :D

Did my answer make sense?

Watch out for your immediate family, and advise the rest of the world. Pray for them.

It is the job of a child’s parents to protect them. it is the job of the husband to protect the wife.
It is the job of the police, military, and fire departments to protect the peoples.

In your case you protect your fiance, beyond that you need only protect yourself. Help others if you can but don’t stretch yourself.

It is not your responsibility to protect them. Give them advice, help them if you can, but remember it is not your responsibility.

Protect yourself and family, before you worry about others my friend.

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:D Glad to be of help.

Where do you and your fiance plan on getting married?

Part of the reason that I suggest the trades is that Student loans may pay tuition but the “living expences” monies really are not enough. At least they were never enough for me and my family.

I still had to work to put myself through school. And the trades is a good way. Because you get paid to go through an apprenticeship. Also it is always something to fall back on if you cannot get a job in gaming.

Something that you may want to consider, is going into the trades to help put yourself through university.

A good trade to get into is HVAC/Plumber.

One of the good things about the trades is that you work during your education.

I myself am a trained carpenter, before I became a minister.

okay, i will tell her but i wont force her, i will just keep telling her until she says yes.
also, my plan is to major in computer science and minor in game design.

Trust me there are things that a doctor can know/do that may make the difference.
I know of a nurse who lived in a small town. She did NOT like the OB/GYN that worked in the hospital. So she decided not to see the doc. As far as she knew the baby was fine. it was an easy pregnancy, but when she gave birth the baby had a deformation.
She found out later that if she had seen a doctor, that steps could have been taken to correct the issue…

See a doc.

But what do you want to go to school for? Doctor, lawyer, electrician, what?

Thanks Josh :D

She NEEDS to go to a doctor. For the sake of the baby.
If you cannot afford to go, contact the local women’s shelter, Health unit/department, or church.
Tell them your situation. They will get you to a doctor.

And something that you may be able to do is get her to start taking a prenatal vitamin, and extra folic acid. Both will benefit her and the baby. you can get them at the drug store in the vitamin section.

What are you wanting to go to school for?

she doesnt baby herself, she has had a hard life, and she might become homeless any day now, so she has the right to complain. also, its hard to go to a doctor here. she doesnt have money, her mom doesnt have much money, and i would have toask my parents while they will send me to a boarding school thats over 200 miles from here if they find out about this now which isnt good, but if i wait until i am 100% needed, then they will let me stay. the baby has been in my plans since i asked her to marry me, so it definently fits, but if i cant go to college and get a good job then i fear that the kid wont have a good life. also, my name is Josh

If it has been more than 4 months she NEEDS to see a doctor, and is past time to start “babying” herself.

But what about your plans. I know you both wanted to get post secondary educations… but a baby is going to be a BIG change. I know from experience, (both personal and third party) that trying to work, go to school, and raise a child is no easy thing.

How does the baby play into your plans?
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On another topic… what is your name? I would like to call you something :D

we havent been to a doctor yet. she doesnt want to. and the pregnancy gets in the way of her doing well and that makes me worry about her

you will be fine. Life is not easy but you can do it :D

So have you and your fiance been to the doctor’s yet about the pregnancy?
And how does the pregnancy effect your plans?

Hey. Calm down :D

What has happened to cause you to make these posts?

Your original premise is deeply flawed. http://help.com/post/570876-50-says-t…

lol true enough :D

The admins have been playing around with the site. most people are having that problem… myself included :D

and no hard feelings right :D

It is just taking me a bit to write it :D
posting now :D

tbh I think that you should wait until you and your fiance are financially stable, and able to support yourselves.

I know from experience that being financially unstable, and newly wed puts a great strain on your relationship.

The vast majority of marital troubles are caused by money.

Are you unsure about your proposal/engagement?

My whole reply about “why can’t they criticize themselves” was just a joke, because I was very overtly criticizing and calling people annoying in that reply, and it was about people who criticize and call people annoying.

To be honest I haven’t followed the posts.
I think that I looked at the first one, and that was it.

kk thanks :D

so is it Oak to the north? or east? or does it depend on the reason for casting the circle?

The reason that i’m asking is that I’m drawing up the plans for an interfaith church, and part of the outdoors garden is going to include a circle. And I need to know if/and/or where the tree(s) should be planted.

If at all possible?

To the pagan Siperx… :D

When casting a circle, if in a forest… should there be a certain tree at one or more of the cardinal points on the circle? eg: the oak tree to the north…

I’d love to continue our conversation, but I have to go. the power is starting to flicker.
Night :D

Hey Siperx Do you know anyone else who plays D&D here on help? Say perhaps to get a game going here on help?

the underworld rely on example(notoriety). They dont watch TV that much unless they are in it. So the Org in your book will have to rely on word of mouth or notoriety. If they sell information, they should sell 1 information that changed the game, getting the other org wondering who the hell and what other information your org have. Dont overuse the guy in black suit. The government will spoil the thrill. Let it be a game of crooks. ☻ Good luck!

Alright. Is it completed already? Man, the underworld is a dirrrty place. You gotta have people killed, tortured or bought. So is the book going?

hey that is exactly what you need to do.

Patrick Farha 701-238-3257

Kelly Kraft 701-799-9372

Jacqueline brown shaw 701-219-3518

Rebecca Carpenter 701-866-3550

these are a few listed ULC ministers in Fargo. If none of them work out let me know and I’ll get a few more for you