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• what do you do when the one you love dosent love you the way you thorght they did? posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  ? i have been with my boy friend for 2 years now and love him like there is no tomorrow. we both wan…

• i am depressed. posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  i cant handle the way my life is anymore. im sick of being stressed, my family being angry and never…

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• am i stupid?
  

  hey. i really no what your going through. i havent got to the point of cuting myself at this point but previous times of feeling like this i have a very small bit. the feel you are feeling when you cut your self is a feeling i am very familar with aswell. i used to resort to smoking weed (joints but mainly bongs) as an escape from reality. it made me feel like that the world has stoped and that i no longer have to worry about anything. the worst part was coming down and it made me feel worst but thinking of the feelings i felt while smoking picks me up remotely. its good you are seeking help now(same as me)and that you no you need help and have a problem, but try to stop cutting and maybe it might help and change your feelings. best wishes. if ya need to talk to someone in the same boat you can talk to me.
  smile :)
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• I have no real friends
  

  when you say you live in perth do you mean perth in ausralia????
  
  man do i no how you are feeling. my parent used to be so protective of me too but they eventually let go, that was after i was 18 and i felt they could no long have control of me ( i was an adult lol). i now have no problem with getting out and doing wateva, i mean i still let my rents no what im up to (well wat i want them to no :D) and still check in with them when i decide to stay at my boyfriends or a mates place but that now out of respect because they give me that freedom and so i let them no wat going out so they dont worry bout me, it also about trust. look, give it some time, be honest with them and well soon freedom will be yours. :) good luck
  p.s. dont forget there is no harm in asking, meaning if you want to do something or go out just ask them. they cant say yes and let you go unless you ask them first. even if you think the answer will b no
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• I am feeling rather down right now.
  

  i no exactly how you feel!!!!!!!! boy am i there right now. its good to see that your seeking advice which is something i found very hard to do. its hard for me to help cos i feel the same and cant help myself even but maybe just noing that someone else feels the same way might help and maybe we can help each other.
  
  but i do no one thing, if you love you boyfriend and do want to loose him and he worht being with talk to him and explain why you have come across the way you have and that you love him and that you do want to be with him. whether he can help solve the problem or not atleast he knows the situation and you wont loose him with really wont help your situation. right now you need all the support and least amount of hicups posible, i no i do…
  
  i hope i have helped you and that you feel better soon. and just to let you no there is nothing wrong with crying and sometimes it even helps.
  
  best wishes and if you need to talk to some one who feels the same do hesitate to talk to me. i promiss i will understand :)
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• wat should i do
  

  i dont no much about gay sex but if one side is telling you not to do it or that your not ready than i would say that you shouldnt do. if you not completely ready than your not ready. wait a bit longer and see where the relationship is going and wait til both “sides” of you are both ready :)
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• i am depressed.
  

  NAYNAY99_U
  thank you for you reply. my mum always says how you life is maped out and planned in which i beleive aswell. i just want to why my life was planned this way. like i said in the begin i felt like this 2 years ago but it also happen for a long time about 2 years be fore that (if that makes sense)i was only feel good for a short while. but hey i have to say aleast im seeking advice this time…
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

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