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Thanks my friend. :o) hugs!

yeah - his wife may not know now, but she knew 10 years ago when she inserted herself in his world when i was his friend, but she was the kids caregiver and he had a big house - so she moved in and made herself the queen. then when he had to downsize and prospects were not looking so good she left until we were dating again and now she married him- aorry but seems to me a lot like a woman with a masters degree in psych who is manipulative and only really wants what someone else has until it does not work for her the way she wants. I have almost no doubt this marriage will end badly and I am not happy about that. I am sad that i did not have the guts to ask him to marry me when i could and instead let our relationship get physical when i should not of… we were friends long before she came along and i believe we maybe togethr long after she is gone.

that said - i dooo apprecaite your thoughts and perhaps i should at least try to think that there maybe someone as lonely as i am out there too and it is we aho are right for each other. I mean even if they end up apart after all this maybe i should no longer be available after all… I told him i would always love him - but that does not mean i have to let him walk all over me.. I am insanely sad about it though :(

Sorry for the delicious rabbit remark. Someone pointed it out to me and Im sorry, I didnt mean to imply that you ate your rabbit too.

yea I change my name every once in a while keeps people on there toes LOL if you want to see all of my names just look in my profle

illusion ? What is the illusion?

Shout box is for compliments, or hello, something positive, or an invitation, There are so many problems in this world and adding negativity is like adding poison, Negativity is like bacteria or weed it grows and it tries to kill any little good there’s left.

For: getto_girl7
2007-03-29 on “I am a mother of 3 children”
I never said you were lazy, I gave you advice, I’m no doctor, you don’t have to leave the same message or responds of your post question to my shoutbox. If you see my profile again, I want you to know I hope your problems get resolved.

visitingneighbor…. i have extreme scholiosis… which has made my body shift to the point of having a shorter leg… it also affects the tail bone in which i am unable to sit straight. i have worked since i was 12 years old due to abuse at home.. and have been on my own since i was 16.. i am not lazy… i have medical problems in which they want to operate on my back… i am 32 years old… this is a serious condition… not only that.. i have spurs comming off the spine and degenerative arthritis in my back as well… I AM NOT LAZY…

Everyone has problems in life, and I like to give advice that will help many people dealing with everyday problems using ONLY my knowledge and experience in life

I see you’re trying to help a lot of people. That’s impressive. I think you may want to give some thought to empathy before you write your answers, though. I think that might make your message a lot more powerful.