writing=life mostly's shout trail with DarkSnow - Help.com

ShoutTrail: writing=life mostly and DarkSnow

Just a simple "Hello", "Thanks", or chat! Back to writing=life mostly's profile...

DarkSnow
2 years ago

Ah, you shouted yourself.
I think it’s good to forgive when forgiveness is a good thing but to never forget.
Either you will be able to fix this or you will have to learn that though you like her she isn’t worth your trust and caring because she doesn’t reciprocate what you put into the relationship. I hope, either way, you are able to deal with it =)

Report this shout to moderators

DarkSnow
2 years ago

Though personally, I’d have a very hard time. When I care about someone I put a lot of trust in them. If they betray it, they have done enough harm to me they usually can’t repair it =/

Report this shout to moderators

DarkSnow
2 years ago

I believe that’s a good idea. The most helpful thing is to be honest with someone about the way you feel about things. Bring everything out in the open so that it can either be proved or disproved.
Though, something to keep in mind is, what will change after talking with her? She’s making foolish choices on purpose, will she keep doing so? Will she learn and have things different?

Report this shout to moderators

writing=life mostly
2 years ago

i did want to over look it but i found out he is 2 grades ahead of us and that she new that he had dont the same thing with her best friend the day before and that she new he was just a pervert but she still went out with him im just so hurt i do really want to forgive her but it is hard next time i talk to her which if she calls me like she does everynight will be in 20 minitus i think im going to basicly juist tell her how hurt i am and how mad i am

Report this shout to moderators

DarkSnow
2 years ago

Ah, I figure our conversation may get a bit long so I’d respond here.
Do you think it’s an acceptable behavior for her to have and something that you should forgive and overlook?

Report this shout to moderators

You must be registered and validated to leave shouts to other users.