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[quote Anonymous]Simple… you tell them that you said it…. and apologise… don’t make excuses up for saying it… admit to being horrible for being horrible sake which is what it sounds like you did.[/quote]

yeah express how you feel, i agree on not making any excuses.
i think by the looks of it your better of confronting the situation. im sure the person you have upset has done awful things to others which we all do (to different extents).

the fact you are experiencing guilt shows you have a consience (i dont think i can spell that word right).

most of us experience that feeling at some point in our lives. some have done worse but dont experience any guilt whatsoever.

I would like to stay on my gluten free diet which ive been on for 4 months now which is helping me have more empathy for people and maybe ill like to become dairy free too.

i would like to have completed my degree and hopefully have a job and or possibly start level 3 of a counselling course.

do you feel you dont get much love and affection in ur life?

to become a doctor you need at least a biology, another science and maths or two other sciences.
look up on a search engine, where do u like?

if this is just a prank attempt to exploit peoples kindness by pretendingto be a disadvantaged person than seriously, you are extremely degrading and selfish.

if by slight chance what u said is true, sorry but money isnt given away on this site.

[quote Zeus’ Beard!][quote spiritedsoul]why the hell do you want to find a fight club?
this is one of the strangest posts ive seen on this site.[/quote]

o.O
This is just another coin in the well, miss spiritedsoul.[/quote]

ive been here a while and i havent seen that many posts as weird as this

yeah i find it easier talking to people i know really well like my family most of the time, maybe because i have been rounf them long enough to understand their sense their humour, what intimidates them etc etc
with new people i have to discover and learn all over again.

i also find it hard to get on with many people as i lack a dcent amount of empathy and affection at times and get really jealous when i see people be able to have them for others. so i experience a lot of unhealthy emotions such as anger and frustration. many pick that up and dont like it.

‘but I actually think that the hardest thing my brother has had to deal with is very very low self esteem. I find that his real problems are loving himself. Once you realize how amazing you are and how important you are to people’

i think it canbe hard to be confident round people if you cant read them very well. like sometimes i cant tell the difference between someone trying to take advantage of me and someone who tries to be nice.

i dunno really, im still learning about myself. im hungryand tiered atm lol

why the hell do you want to find a fight club?
this is one of the strangest posts ive seen on this site.

I notice guys usually turn aggressive if theyve been rejected where as girls usually sob or sulk.
rejection i guess is difficult for every1 at some point

i do find it hard to understand most mens motives.

one bloke badly bullied me and made my life a misery, months later he asked me out.
but i did reject him before he bullied me.

its confusing.

awww thanks sahaven :)

yes it does have a big impact but im trying to get all help i can.

thanks for caring

i think before you ask him out or anything like that, ask if he is gay.

i presume you like this guy then and want to be with him?

most likely

thats ok, i really do appreciate you care though.

when im in a group i dont usually remember what i think lol i usually feel confused and try to listen to people but it can get tiring because my brain is useless lol