Hi Florence, good to hear from you. Thank you for the welcome back. You are right. We hardly recognize anyone. Oh well, life goes on. How have you been?
Carol
you metioned you had breast reduction surgery on someones post… not something you should mention online otherwise you’ll have hundreds of guys asking you where you live and when you’re available for a date… me being one of them… just kidding :)
yes, I’m feeling better, but then after I didn’t talk to you then I didn’t talk to people I felt closer too, only people I felt farther from. Weird, huh?
er, I hate to be so disconnective, but I’m so needing to just sleep and sleep… Friday, Saturday, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday I just work and work and work and work these days.
I’m actually about too sleepy to think things I can say… I’ll be back in a little bit — and I just logged in on facebook too, so maybe when I come back if you want to talk about anything I might be more awake.
I was around people all day (it’s early evening and I’m almost falling asleep) … some of them I talked with, some I didn’t, then I hopped on my bicycle, came home, turned on the computer and was getting ready to turn it off and take a shower. … and what’s your story? :)
Yes, we can find other ways to talk, I think. I didn’t have a computer, I wasn’t online, except a few brief times in recent months — I just got this notebook computer a few days ago and then online today… I’ll get to the point of having instant messaging clients sometime….
I can relate to your last post about speaking in a group.. Sensitive people like myself do much better one to one, and then we dont have to fight to be heard…Its hard to be heard in a group when you are a little shy… I am glad you posted this because I thought I was the only one who felt this..
im a lot older than you hunny&with age comes wisdom :)
when you say you put on a lot of pressure,how?
obviously you dont love yourself,thats were you need to make the change first..
when you look in the mirror what do you see?
what have you accomplished in life..
instead of seeing your failings,see the positive things whats made a difference in your life?
same here hun,my parents also argued&my dad beat the crap outa my mum*thats another story*
i started seeing boys when i was 13*nothing sexual*
i was looking for love&attention *just like you*
you see,the thing i craved the most was my parents love&understanding,however they was too wrapped up in their own probs to even notice my pain :/
so i became an angry,bitter,little bitch!
i went out to hurt whoever i could basically..*insecurities*
got me in a big way!
then i met my hubby when i was 16!*jelous!!! omg! if he looked at another girl i would go mad!
the amount of girls i threatened to kill over him! lol!*again insecurities*
nothing is as perfect as it seems hun,like i stated before you never know what goes on behind closed doors..
have you tried to change your bfs?
*like your mum did*
you need to change&become stronger person inside,if you do this then your insecurities will have nothing to fight against :)
there you go hun,you have a certain image of how men should be&react**your mums doing*
again,your mums insecurities*past down from her parents& so fourth*
the cycle keeps on turning!
children learn what they live..we live&learn a lot from our parents&giving you negative vibes in any way shape or form will only give you insecurities later on in your own life!
did your parents get on well wqith eachother
did any of them have an affair?
again,you got bullied because you believed the shit they was spouting..they knew were to hurt&succeeded in the process!
what is your definition of your perfect man?
you need to regress go back into your childhood,you are an adult now&only you have the power&determination to make a transition in your life :)
to find me on facebook my name is brian ellenburg and u can add me as a friend if u would like. There are like 4 or 5 people with my name. I am not the pretty girlof the same name(???)(LOL). im the one with the longish hair looking down from cleveland. see you.
hey i appreciate the feed back =) not gonna lie my arms and legs feel silky smooth and like definitions in my arms and forearms seem good kinda feel sexy lol
Hi dear, sorry for not having been on for a while.
Well, I was not on your miss list (sobs), but I missed you!
Anyway I’m OK, I just got another job and have to drive far every day. But yesterday I collected the keys to a new address in the work town, so I’ll move within some days.
Are you OK too?
oh sorry! I just seen your reply under mine that’s all. An innocent mistake on my part.I shouted her to. She is so awesome :) Hope you are good to. R u enjoying your weekend?
I attend a class that has been going for 35 years, so we always have at least a couple of dozen. I’ve been with it since 1990. This particular class is almost all black belts and a few browns. I agree, any martial arts class sucks if there aren’t enough people there.
Are you still into martial arts? I’m taking my test for 4th dan in TKD this month, and just did the board-breaking part yesterday. It went well although I did bruise my hand.
I was angst ridden computer geek, and went to an art supplies shop and bought big sheets or different coloured carboard. Didn’t know why and just sat them in the lounge room. The friend came to stay and asked about them. I told her I had no Idea. Ends up she is art therapist and told me what all hte different colours probably meant. I’m not usually into that sort of stuff, but I did have to admit that I bought them, and she was on the money about what they ment.
Just saying that I’m now a convert to your alchemy…
Oh I am not sure if Wuthering Heights is on that site, but if I find it online, I’ll send you a link. It is from the famous novel by Emily Bronte. I adore it. True undying love story. Very nice.
Well you are very welcome my dear!!! I have a question though..which one is your new fav? Also my all time favorite old film is wuthering heights. You should check it out. =)
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