casie's reply history at Help.com

[quote Dr. Jackson]Wanting to take a break typically means you feel the relationship might not mean anything to you. So, do you feel as if this relationship might not mean anything?[/quote]

:/ I don’t believe that and no not at all. It’s just that we’re getting on each others nerves. I feel like he needs one more than me but he strongly disagrees..regardless I said we should take break since I feel he needs one and he says I shouldn’t make that choice for him. Is that controlling of me? Am I in the wrong here? I feel like if we don’t take one we’ll keep fighting constantly. OH: and we keep spending a lot of time together..a little too much time I think. He’ll come over after work despite the fact that he’s exhausted. Because of his exhaustion he’ll have really short temper but no matter what I say he always wants to see me no matter how tired he is.

why don’t you make a nice bracelet for him? :)
http://looback.storenvy.com/products/…

http://www.forever21.com/Product/Prod…

I really like this one with that skirt:: http://www.forever21.com/Product/Prod…

Hope you have fun!! :)

[quote robby_h_2]Millions of women around the world are not having sex but are on the pill.

Its an adult thing to do, as is a guy having a condom in his top pocket no matter where he goes. You might not be having sex now, but in the heat of the moment you might get carried away.

From what I understand with my x girlfriend it also helped with her periods as well.[/quote]

there will be no carrying away :) I’ve decided not to until I’ve been in a long, stable relationship with someone and that hasn’t happened yet.

But anyways, do you think I should be upset?

I’m not having s*x so I thought that might be a bit silly.

Thank you Keeper of the light! That website is awesome! ^ ^

[quote Jessicamacca]Well probably not as much as I should be
I hate the way she makes me feel when she’s there!
He went out of the picture a long time ago, I don’t contact him, he doesn’t even live in the same country as me.[/quote]

I think Evansent gave you some pretty good advice.
Maybe she’s just stressed out from work/life overall?
And why don’t you try talking to her? She’d probably understand.

[quote lifelover]The amount of help you get is usually not actually directly related to how much you need it. Bigger factors are usually availability or willingness of anyone to step in or for the person in need to ask for help. At that point, the more resources the better if they really are targeting the problem and providing the solution.

There is need-based aid in some circumstances, but if you watch this site (a more general situation), every day you’ll see that the people who are worst off or even complain the loudest often have to make yet further posts about how being so messed up and complaining got them no help.[/quote]

Wow…thank-you. I’m glad I read that, that was very enlightening :)

Good, that’s a very healthy reaction :) It really does sound like everything is starting to work out to your advantage. I wish you the best of luck. At least the storm had passed right?

This story is told from your point of view. For anyone to properly judge who’s fault it was they’d have to know his point of view as well. From what you’ve written, it is clearly his fault.

Thanks guys!! :)

Thank you! :) those seem really easy! I’ll give them a shot!

what a douche

[quote H0ney]Interested in a butternut squash soup recipe? [/quote]

Sure! :)

Hmm…I’m not a big fan of the rice my mother usually makes so that would be helpful. I really love mashed potato so a recipe for that might be fun to try. Oh, and any dessert recipes would be appreciated as well :)

[quote lifelover]Here is one of Help.com’s sister sites, all about food, that maybe could help you: http://chowhound.chow.com/boards[/quote]
Thanks, I know there are many other sites I could go on for recipes but I was particularly interested in what Help.com’s users would suggest since I really like the people on here :)