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  hah. i’m dealing with the same problem, kinda sucks. but it’s working out pretty well so far..up until i’m alone.
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

• I have family issues.
  

  [quote Tiny_T]suggest family couseling?… I don’t know. I gave up on my family a long time ago. All they do is lie and hurt each other physically and mentally. My mother and father got divorced and my father got into a new relationship and his partner murdered him and my mother told me “God does things for a reason, you better watch it or you will lose another parent” making me feel at age 13 that I was part of the reason my father died. I grew up doing nothing but trying to please her and never could and brother and sisters wouldnt care if I dropped dead so I gave up on family a long time ago….
  
  anyways it seems that if your family would seek professional help then this may help. It would help them build trust. You can’t have a functional healthy relationship/family without trust.[/quote]
  
  ow, your story, well I’m sorry.. makes mine looks insignificant hah. Anyways, thank you for the advice, it’ll help in the long run, so I have to suck it up and say what I feel.
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

• I feel alone.
  

  Hey, don’t feel like that. There are always people out there that want to get to know you for you. Don’t let these jerks that are beating you up ever take that hope away from you. I’m here for you :) as well as many others on this site.
  
  If you want to talk about anything, message me :)
  
  I’ve gotten bullied too, but I overcame them and made true friends
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

• This is my last post..
  

  I don’t know you at all, but have a great life, honestly :)
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

• Ok not sure where to begin so he we go… Im at
  

  [quote sbreck]alittleconfused,
  
  i appreciate your sympathy and willingness to help. I honestly never expected my life to end up like this personally. I grew up a good student, beta club member, athlete, had lots of friends, and thought i had it all together.
  
  I have thought about talking to my mom and dad about this several times but am very scared to– neither of them even know i knew that part happened… and for some reason i have to much pride to get myself into therapy— and dont wanna make things weird between my friends… I guess i do need to just man up and go to therapy though—seems like my only option for a normal life now i guess[/quote]
  
  I believe you just solved your own problem, hun :) haha. A real man will ask for help when he really needs it. There’s absolutely no shame in that and if you have true friends, then they’d be happy to help you and comfort you. It won’t be weird.
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

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