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Thanks for the help guys, I’ll keep you posted.

Definitely agree with that.

Best thing would be to be honest with yourself first and then with her. Do you want to be friends with her? If she really did get help and you think that things would be ok now do you want to start being friends again? If not just don’t reply.
If you do want to be friends with her you just have to forgive her for what happened before and start fresh with the friendship. It may not jump right back to where you left off but you can still try and be friends again.
It’s all up to you and how you feel about the idea of being friends again.

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Ir he’ll be too happy about seeing me to care, knowing him he won’t think of anything bad until it’s too late… I feel really bad doing this to the guy but it had to be done.

If I said I’m coming over he’d be a little confused because I’ve never done that before. Think it would be better if he saw it coming?

Definitely can’t do it over text, it would just be way to mean.

Not really, if it wasn’t in the middle of winter where it’s been -20C outside I would say the park across his street, but that’s just not a good idea.
I figure I should be ok doing this at his place if I time it right, but how do I tell him that I need to go over to talk about this? Just I just text him “we need to talk”?

http://kidshealth.org/parent/medicati…

This might be for kids technically but it still has info you might be able to use.

Definitely cannot do it over the phone, I hate talking on the phone as is so I could just imagine doing this over it..

It’s just not working out, there are lot of different reasons for it, mostly I just don’t find us to be a good match (in my mind) and I can tell he’s a lot more into the relationship than I am and it’s not fair for him that I keep it going if I don’t see it going anywhere.

Ohh no, nothing to do with him not driving! That’s definitely not why I’m breaking up with the guy, that’s just a problem for me finding a place to go to break up with him.
I would do it at his home but chances are his mom and brother would be there.

If you don’t mind me asking, how old are you?
I’ve felt like that a lot of the time, but the age does make a difference, the older I get the less shy I get and the more people I meet that are similar to myself.

See, I kind of have an idea of what I’m going to say already, now I just need to figure out where to be when I tell him and how to bring it up.

I agree with oyster, don’t confront him if you’re both angry already because that won’t solve anything.
I do think that you should talk to him about it though because it is obviously hurting you a lot and he should be aware of that. If you don’t think you can talk to him in person maybe write him a letter and give it to him when you know you won’t be home so that he has time to read through it and process what it says before talking to you about it.
If that does not work for you then maybe just ask him if he’ll go out for coffee or something and talk there?

I get like that all the time. I would be totally into something for a while and then all of a sudden I don’t feel like it anymore.. For some people it’s a sign of depression because when you are depressed you lose interest in things you used to enjoy, for others it’s just that those things just don’t do anything for you anymore. It happens, it’s part of growing up, try new things and maybe you’ll find something new to love?