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• She keeps saying no to sex…are these excuses legitimate? posted (3 years, 4 months) ago
  My girlfriend and I began our relationship pretty openly. We waited about two months before we fi…

• Financial Trouble & Relationship posted (3 years, 4 months) ago
  Throughout college and my first couple years out of college I got into some major credit card debt.…

• Problems with my girlfriends ex boyfriend posted (3 years, 4 months) ago
  I started dating this girl about two years ago. Our relationship started off great, as always. Of…

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• She keeps saying no to sex…are these excuses legitimate?
  

  Thanks for all of the replies. I’ll try to elaborate a little bit more. By no means am I trying to treat her like a “piece of meat.” When I do those things I try to be romantic about it…like pinch her butt, give her a kiss on the cheek, and whisper in her ear that I think she is beautiful. Trust me, I never try to make her feel uncomfortable. When I come on to her, I’m not just like “lets screw”…I try to make it passionate but she turns me down. She says it’s because she feels fat but it makes me feel like she isn’t attracted to me anymore. I ask her if that is the case and she says no. It’s just weird because she gets really upset with me sometimes about this. She says that she things she may have a problem with being so concerned with the way her body looks. I’m just wondering what the actual truth is. Is it that she really feels bad about herself (even though she can wear a bikini top and a mini skirt at a party), or is it that she is losing interest in me and just doesn’t want to be intimate with me?
  - written 3 years, 4 months ago

• She keeps saying no to sex…are these excuses legitimate?
  

  You are right on…she is in her early 20’s. She is one of those girls that loves attention, and attention she gets from other guys must make her feel sexier than I do. I tell her everyday how hot I think she is. I grab her butt, come on to her, try to make her feel wanted…yet I get the cold shoulder from her. She blows me off by saying “whatever” to every compliment I give her. And, as I mentioned earlier, she has been denying me of sex. She makes me feel bad for wanting it. She says that it is so frustrating and annoying that I am always horny! And now, constantly using the “feeling fat” excuse is getting rather frustrating for me. Has she lost the spark??? Does she not want me anymore???
  - written 3 years, 4 months ago

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