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• who thinks it’s a bad idea to be pregnant at the age of 16?
  

  Don’t do it. Think about the rest of your life. You havn’t even graduated highschool. Kids don’t need to be raising kids, and besides all that there are enough people on this plantet as it is.
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• My dad has a drinking problem and he was very abusive to me, my brother, and my mom.
  

  I’m in the same boat, except I’m the older sis who cares for her younger sis due to alcohol related problems. I also am dealing with alcoholism, but a number of events about 6 months ago made me snap out of my heaving drinkng, one being my dad no longer being able to care for my sister(because he’s an alcoholic) and her moving in with me. I also did not want to be what we were getting away from, so I quit drinking. I still feel a lot of pressure, and sometimes it does build up, but I’ve learned that it’s not all about me. It takes communication. My sister knows what I’m going through; we talk about it all the time. You have to get through to your brother and tell him how it’s affecting you, how it’s screwing you up because he’s acting just like your dad. You have to remind him of all the pain and suffering it causes, and that you are probably all he’s got and vice versa.
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• My son is gay, how do i make him straight again
  

  WOW
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• am i pretty?
  

  Man that’s messed up. You are very pretty, cute as a button. Don’t look fat either. Someone called me a fat dyke ***** once, and I’m none of the above (well maybe a *****) so I just quite worrying about it.
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• I am dating an acholic I am 18 he is 21 he does not
  

  I love my father but he is an alcoholic. I can’t stand him when he is drunk. That’s why I don’t live with him, and I try to only talk to him early in the morning so he hasn’t had a chance to drink himself into a stupor. But he’s still my dad and I love him, and I can’t just get rid of him. But this boyfriend is expendable. You can’t help anyone who doesn’t want your help or doesn’t think they have a problem. I can leave my dads house and go on with my life, but a boyfriend you are probably planning on actually spending time with him and that is quite difficult when you can’t stand him half the time. People who havn’t lived with (or dealt with) an alcoholic can’t quite grasp the pain it causes. Don’t let his problem ruin your life.
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

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