So her and I have already talked about her next visit to grand rapids. I have my senior project presentation on may 3rd and I asked her if she’d want to come down to visit. I mean she’s likely going to be moving here very shortly anyways. So when she does come visit she’ll be sleeping in my room again while she stays more than likely. Last time she slept on the floor, she insisted on it… But if last time her and I did the nasty and then this time I don’t make any such advances… well what kinda message is that gonna send?
I just feel like I’m in such a shitty situation. Like for example… She’s just entering the program at school that I am just about to leave. We’d litteraly have 6 months together before I’d be off looking for a job. I’m in grand rapids right now, but I’ve already got a lead for a job in seattle. I mean if by some chance I got this amazing job, they chances of us working where her and her current are/nt are basically the same odds. Granted at least I’d be a citizen so I could at least visit maybe once a month for a weekend, but still. I feel like I’m fighting a losing battle, but I want to win… so so badly.
Wrong. You need to be a total gentleman here. She is vulnerable and you CANNOT take advantage of that. If you so much as brush a nipple you could lose her forever. Right now you are a monk under oath of celibacy. Let her decide when to to take the veil off.
There’s a good chance it won’t stop at a hug if there aren’t too many people nearby when it happens.
Man I wish I could talk to people on help.com about my real issues. Like things that have happened between me and her. But I know if I did I’d get a trainwreck of comments like “You should go to hell for that” or “You made her cheat on her boyfriend!… Blarg…
It’s been such a long time since I’ve had a girl I can have “fun” with… It could just be a fling, IDK… but I’m absolutly blinded by her lol.
And it’s prolly a good thing I wash hands…
Also I think you need to be friends before you can exchange emails. And when I looked I didn’t see that. Wanna try sharing your email with me and I can give it to her?
Yeah I’ve done about as much as I can to help her find a job. I wish I could do more. We first met only a week ago and she had an interview that went phenomenally. And in case your thinking it… she’s by far the most compatible person I’ve ever met. If there really is a thing as a soul mate… IDK if she’s it, but she’s pretty damn close to what I think the definition would be.
Well, we both know she is going to need a lot of comforting when she finally has to let go of her beloved pets. I am hoping to find a place where they can live out the rest of their lives in peace. That at least should give her some peace too. Your job will be to help her find employment.
I have a dog already, and since I don’t own the house I can’t just let her do as she wants, regardless of how I feel. If it were up to me I’d let her have her dog here, I wouldn’t care. But my step dad won’t allow it.
IT’s sorta a last ditch option, but she’d be staying in a room in my house. So… the chances of us making love multiple times is very high. I’ll be honest I don’t think I’d be able to not make a move when she’s so willing to accept the advances.
Thanks for being such a good sport about my request. The thing is I have fallen for her hard. She has a boyfriend… but despite all that she’s already cheated with me… I wish I could have her to myself but she still loves her boyfriend.
That all aside, she’s going to be attending my degree and I have the means to help her with a place to live for a few months until she can settle in on her own. I feel like all the logic in the world is sorta sitting there, but being ignored. Maybe I’m the one that’s trying too be too realistic, IDK, but I’ve already tried to help her as much as I can. I asked for people to write on her post, such as yourself, because I know you and others like you are level headed and friendly people.
So again, thanks for persueing trying to help her through her thoughts. It meansa lot to me. And… don’t mention this shout to her or on that post. I just thought I’d kinda fill you in on some of the hidden information.
I’ve nothing to forgive you for, you’ve done nothing wrong. You’re a model citizen as far as I’m concerned. Jazz though… Not happening. Based simply off the fact she goes through men like water and then gets mad when one of them doesn’t give her what she wants… well she’s gotta learn she cant have everything right?
she told me she was prego for like 3 weeks and then told me she wasn’t and that she was just messing with me. The lie ended with something along the lines of her telling me her boyfriend punched her in the stomach or something, I don’t quite remember but it was drastic enough that I was pissed to hell when she told me she lied about the whole thing. Not to mention she’s sort of an idiot, one I particularly don’t feel like associating with in any way until I can feel she ins’t one anymore.
Yes, but she is worrying more about the love SHE is not receiving from her mother. That is the wrong attitude to take. The first line in the poem I cited is ‘People are self-centered’. That should hit like a facepalm to her head.
I don’t think all of us could have been duped that easily. My theory now is tatti mentioned near the end having siblings, sisters I believe. It could easily have been one of the siblings that did the trolling before and tatti needed real help, but the IP address came up the same. Just wonder who was daring enough to report her? And why???
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