Not without some serious counseling she won’t. And she hates counselors. Parents are of no use. Neither works and have drug habits. She said she lived with her brother and he even raped her… until she confessed no brother exists. She also said she was 18. I have some doubts of that claim too. Here’s a recent video of her. Your thoughts please. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HB-ha1…
I dont know. I hope not. He begs for me back but I’m terrified of being hurt again. I dont know what to do anymore!! I care about his well being so much, more than mine I can say. But I think because of this it makes it so much harder to let go. Yet, if I don’t, I know there will be a long line of unhappiness….again. But the mere thought of him forming a relationship with anyone else kills me :(
How long has it been since you broke up? It’s kinda nice you are choosing to remember the positive moments. That also speaks to the commitment you put into the relationship. Is there an inkling of a chance of reconciliation?
Haha thanks! I dont know its weird…when I was with him all I could think about is all of the bad things about him and how horrible he made me feel. When Im without him I can only think of all the good times we had and all of our inside jokes and the things he did to show me he cared….and its impossible to think of the bad which is driVing me crazy!!! LOL
Anxiety I can understand, but why guilt? Relationships are a two-way street. He had to share in some of the reasons why you broke up. Have you dated anybody since or are you still rebounding?
(&*^$*&$^* I hate it when I shout myself…. :( )
Well the mods can’t do anything about it. First amendment rights etal. You might try a polite shout in their shoutbox to see if they would consider changing it since yours came first. What do you think?
Wait for them to post first and then add your reply. They come on here at least three times a week. No age is given but they sound young. Fifteen, sixteen, seventeen maybe. If you look hard enough you will find them. And now that we are friends if I spot one I will send you an invite and you can respond when you get it. No pressure though. I want you to enjoy this site, not be burdened by it.
I know I won’t ever let this happen with any other man for sure. I feel like i’ll almost be too protective of how I;m treated in the future. I was with him since 16. I would love to share with others, but how would I post something where I know others will for sure read it?
You are 19 now so you must have been with him since you were 16. I know you are wiser now. And it is my sincerest desire that you frequent Help.com to share what you have learned with other young women here. Your wisdom is invaluable to those going through something similar. I know you will. You have a kind heart. ♥
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