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Oh, and send it via email please. Thanks.

Not without some serious counseling she won’t. And she hates counselors. Parents are of no use. Neither works and have drug habits. She said she lived with her brother and he even raped her… until she confessed no brother exists. She also said she was 18. I have some doubts of that claim too. Here’s a recent video of her. Your thoughts please. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HB-ha1…

No problem. I really hope she realizes that nothing was her fault and she can move on from this.

Thank you kindly dear.

Email me please. This should be kept private I feel.

I dont know. I hope not. He begs for me back but I’m terrified of being hurt again. I dont know what to do anymore!! I care about his well being so much, more than mine I can say. But I think because of this it makes it so much harder to let go. Yet, if I don’t, I know there will be a long line of unhappiness….again. But the mere thought of him forming a relationship with anyone else kills me :(

How long has it been since you broke up? It’s kinda nice you are choosing to remember the positive moments. That also speaks to the commitment you put into the relationship. Is there an inkling of a chance of reconciliation?

Haha thanks! I dont know its weird…when I was with him all I could think about is all of the bad things about him and how horrible he made me feel. When Im without him I can only think of all the good times we had and all of our inside jokes and the things he did to show me he cared….and its impossible to think of the bad which is driVing me crazy!!! LOL

Sounds like you could use a long soft warm cubby-bear hug. So I’m sending you one, albeit cyber-symbolically.

I hate it too! I’ve done neither…

Anxiety I can understand, but why guilt? Relationships are a two-way street. He had to share in some of the reasons why you broke up. Have you dated anybody since or are you still rebounding?
(&*^$*&$^* I hate it when I shout myself…. :( )

Sounds like a lot of busy work lol. Just cant get over my ex for some reason, I’ve been having a lot of anxiety and guilt. I feel like I cant live life. I hate it =/

Let me help you. Please? I care about you. Either on shout or email; whichever you prefer.

I’ve been super-cleaning the house. Painted the living room and updated the furniture on the cheap. Next is my son’s bedroom.

I’m so sorry to hear that but keep your spirits up…everything happens for a reason. I’ve been better…nothing I dont think I cant handle though

What have you been doing to keep yourself busy?

I’m doing ok. Out of work at the moment. Little over a month now. My spirits are still positive. Despite the government screwing around with the piddly amount of UC they give us now.

And you?

Hey Southern Comfort how have you been doing?

Well it is greatly appreciated.

It was a rhetorical question. A reply to…

Halo 0=) wrote:
I would lobe the help and most definitely need it. I will reply as soon as I do more research and find my position thank you so much southern comfort!

I’m always willing to help those that are good dear friends, of which I count you as one. That’s all I meant.

Wait I may have taken your shout differently than you intended it lol.

For support and company. Why do you ask?

What are friends for..?

Long story to be honest. It will blow over. It just takes time with power hungry females. Need to hit the pillow sweetheart. Good to see you. It really is. *hugs*

Why not?

Ok I suppose. Boss isn’t happy with me at present.

Ive been good, and you?

True. How have you been? I’ve missed you.

Naw its fine. It doesn’t really matter to me I know mine came first and that’s all that matters. In the end, it’s just an avatar.

Well the mods can’t do anything about it. First amendment rights etal. You might try a polite shout in their shoutbox to see if they would consider changing it since yours came first. What do you think?

I know! I saw it and it completely threw me off

Don’t look now but somebody has the same avatar as you do… http://help.com/user/530010-steve89

go to http://tinychat.com/halonsoco and log in as a guest.

hang on. I have an idea.

I have no idea. I would e-mail you directly from it but the website won’t let me see your e-mail even though it says it would.

But of course, but don’t reveal it in a public place like shout. How do you want to do it?

Well I appreciate that you care. Is it okay if I give you a different e-mail address than what I used to sign up for help.com?

Any chance of revealing your email to me?

I am worried about it. Sorry but that’s just the way I am. I care about friends, even new ones.

Hello. Don’t worry about it. I thought I would be able to e-mail you but whenever I click on the link to be lead to your e-mail nothing happens =/

I’m sorry… :(

Halo?

send me an email.

yes

Southern Comfort I’m not doing okay right now and need somebody to talk to so badly. Are you available right now?

Yes i do have a book store near me

Do you live near a bookstore or own a ereader by chance? I have a couple of books I’d like to recommend to you.

Wait for them to post first and then add your reply. They come on here at least three times a week. No age is given but they sound young. Fifteen, sixteen, seventeen maybe. If you look hard enough you will find them. And now that we are friends if I spot one I will send you an invite and you can respond when you get it. No pressure though. I want you to enjoy this site, not be burdened by it.

Yes I did locate the link to it , thank you.

I know I won’t ever let this happen with any other man for sure. I feel like i’ll almost be too protective of how I;m treated in the future. I was with him since 16. I would love to share with others, but how would I post something where I know others will for sure read it?

Did you locate my email address by chance? Use it whenever you feel like it. I check it whenever I get a chance to.

You are 19 now so you must have been with him since you were 16. I know you are wiser now. And it is my sincerest desire that you frequent Help.com to share what you have learned with other young women here. Your wisdom is invaluable to those going through something similar. I know you will. You have a kind heart. ♥