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I have a horrible habit of not saying. “No” Turing someone down will kill me.. Knowing that I will always wonder what if

You caught her with another man and you are still with her? What is making you depressed exactly? The way she treats you, or hasn’t been treating you? It doesn’t seem like you are happy in this relationship. I am all for giving chances, but if you gave one and you are still living in this awful state of mind… there is a problem you need to take a look at from different stances. Try talking to her about how you feel and see how she takes it.

There’s nothing wrong with going out and doing something different with your life.. It doesn’t mean you will be less of a Christian. You can still live the word of God by doing something that you love, rather than preaching and not being happy.

This is a sticky situation.. A lot can be going on that you may not know about or maybe he is telling you the honest truth. Don’t be naive. He could like this girl. If this guy likes you enough, he wont want to see this girl. It’s not like they have been long term friends or that they’ve always been this close… Even then, I wouldn’t be okay with them hanging out one on one and texting all the time. I have a very close guy friend and we only text when we need to. You said it yourself, he’s been lying to you. Any lie you caught him in has probably been half of the truth. Be careful, but to be honest… 5 months in and you are questioning things? Why do you love him? Does he treat you the way you want to be treated? I’m just trying to get you to think. Good luck!

Okay! since it’s high school and you will be seeing her for a while after if she doesn’t go for it. Drop hints, flirt with her, and if you get a good response off of it, go for it. Or invite her with a group of friends to go bowling or even drive ins!

lol! It’s all about those pheromones!! Depending on the person some stuff can smell amazing or horrid!

college class or high school? I say simply go up to her after class and make conversation. And if you’re comfortable to do so the same day, ask her if she’ll let you take her out for a movie or ice cream!

There is Green Tea I think by Elizabeth Arden, but if not by her any department store can help you out. Maybe just get her a gift card to a place that would sell something like that..

If you don’t already have some girlfriends.. Maybe one of your guy friend’s girlfriends, someone from work, or a relative and her girlfriends would be a good option. Just suggest a girls get together and go shopping, nails, or whatever it is you want to do! Most girls are always up for a night out. Or try calling a few of those girls in your phone book who you haven’t talked to in forever. Good luck!!

He’s a very smart man… He just has a big open heart. Thank you guys! I’m for sure going to keep and eye out and be open about everything now that I’ve organized my thoughts a little more. Maybe it will get him thinking so if something fishy comes up between them, it’ll be easy to spot. Thanks again C:

Try having a talk with her. Lay everything out on the table and have a goal you want to work towards with her. Let her know that you appreciate the care she gives you, but as far as calling you so often… you’re a big kid, you can handle yourself and you will pull her back in when you need help. I noticed that when I moved out.. My mom and I became best friends. Believe me, I argued with my mom and step dad on a daily basis, It was HELL. She just loves you and she knows she is losing grip of you as your older and more mature. hang in there!

They’ve been casually, or as far as I know, dating for about three months or so. I heard the credit card information from my Dad.. They talked about it. I have talked to him and brought up the possibilities of what could be going on, but also gave her the benefit of the doubt. I want to talk to him, but I don’t want to influence him until I have a better insight. I liked her a lot at first. Today she came with us to a family birthday party, my sister invited my dad and her with her and her husband outside to chat since it was nice out and she wanted to stay inside. she almost insisted that she would stay inside, but the whole point of my sister doing that was to talk to both of them, not just my dad. I think she may be insecure? Or maybe she doesn’t want to get too involved for some reason.

Honestly, high school is totally what you make of it. I think you should focus more on yourself, your studies, and friends. Trust me you have the rest of your life for dating =] besides, high school plus guys.. most of the time, they want sex. Be careful!

Honestly, I dated a younger guy and he just wasnt mature enough. I think you should see how he acts and stuff before you make any moves. Either way, age is nothing but a number and if you like him enough it shouldnt matter!

Get tested, get it cleared, and if he refuses then you know something it up. And if he doesnt want to go then thats his choice!