maggielou2's reply history at Help.com

[quote wil]Are you referring to one person, or multiple people?[/quote]

I’m referring to myself, just so depressed lately…….. two people Knew died, people who I care too much that I annoyed the hell out of them removed me out of their life and ignore me. At the end I am my own worst enemie and my own friends is my shadow.

Thank you, same to you too.

[quote saulwilliam]Well your mother needs to start being nice to you, and you need to ask her why she doesnt want to be in your life anymore. also, clinginess can be overcome if you fill your life with other activities, such as going to the gym and shopping, so if you keep yourself busy you will spend less time thinking about other people. depression is horrible but in my experience focusing on the present is the best thing to do, and take everyday as it comes and not worry about the future or past. the past has happened there is nothing you can do about it, the present is now, and leave the future in gods hands. :)[/quote]

It because she doesn’t all she cares about is her man & having the life to herself.

[quote Peacelover]Hello dear sister,

Sorry for calling you sister but I saw that you believe in God and that was so dear to me :) so as I also feel as a son of God I realise that you are my dear beloved sister :) So as I saw your problem, I just want to say that it is not the end hold there ! You are strong ! you are fighting it ! Life isnt easy but i promise you when it is over you will feel joy :) I dont know if it will help you but ussualy when I am down I try to listen to what God says me and I know that he loves me as he does love you ! :) Look there are challenges in this life … I know because right now I am experiencing some very hard times right now but i dont wanna quit … My parents are divorcing … my grilfriend left me … my sister is experiencing hard times … and when I see all of this I know that I have to be STRONG for them to support them and YOU :) my dear sister :) feel free to ask anything you need because you will always have my support and comfort at any times :)

Your spiritual brother :)

Peacelover. :)[/quote]

Thanks & same too you too.

[quote Dr. Ralph]Nobody is perfect, and if you have one person that truly loves you, you are lucky. It is something we all have to live with. Keep your head up and smile. Laugh and the world laughs with you, cry and you cry alone.[/quote]

It’s hard right now

[quote missie_p]She is 21. :) I totally agree she’s going through a phase. Actually, she was adopted by another couple three days after she was born. I desperately wanted to keep her but I wasn’t able to without going on welfare.

She’s absolutely beautiful inside and out, just like you. But because that compliment is coming from me and not the one you want it to come from, it probably doesn’t make you feel much better. I understand.

Hang in there. God’s not finished with you yet. This too shall pass. Please don’t do anything like kill yourself. God gives us a lot of heartache when He has something big He wants us to do in the way of helping others. You’re in bootcamp training right now for something major later on. He put you in this world, and He is the cause of everything, including your problems. He’s not going to mar His Own name and everything He stands for (love) without bringing you through and making you strong and equipped for the job He has for you. You might think I’m just saying that, but I’m a wee bit older than you and I can see things you can’t at this point in your life. You’re worth something, or He wouldn’t have put you here in the first place.

p.s. YOur mother sounds like a b*tch[/quote]

OH well I’m 20 years old & my moms has always depend on a husband & not me or my siste. thanks I would hope so I’m trying to paint to get over my sadness.

[quote missie_p]You look like my own daughter, Lauren, who won’t speak to me much. I will gladly love you. And you can cling to me all you want. :)[/quote]

D’awe thanks & how old she? she probley going throught that teen phase. lol

[quote phoenix.j.ryde]here’s a little something for you:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jEtDRi…

Thanks. I need it.

I understand your pain, I’ve myself is afraid of it too.

[quote Anonymous]yo i hope you ain’t putting out to these boys - cause if so, that’s the only reason they’re going out with you ? hmm, anyway, you need to start loving yourself more than you feel the need to try and love a knucklehead boy who thinks of nothing but fun and games and pranks and sht - the word may be out that all they have to do is act like they like you to get in … and not being mean, but you sound too clingy, too needy, to anxious to please - that won’t work at all,[/quote]

It okay I just need some helps, I mean I dont have a mother role around so Idk what to, I just need some help.

[quote mindhealer]Coming back to help.com isn’t giving up, it’s making a positive and smart choice. I hope it makes you happy. :)[/quote]

Thanks yeah havn’t been on here for a while though I need some change.

I agreed ^^ hang out with him more often :) Then you can tell forsure he like you more.

[quote a wild ozy appears]i definitely agree. but many insecure people use double standards. it’s unfortunate. don’t listen to haters. ;)[/quote]

Thank you, it just I don’t judge ppl but I tired of them judging me & by that I mean my body, my family & my peers. But then again Iam grateful to have a healthy body.

I already met a nice guy now & he’s my boyfriend :D sorry for the late update I just havnt been on here for a while.

[quote Zahid khan Gabari]I think they must be jealous of ur looks and ur appearance.I know it happens when u join a group in real who are internally jealous of ur personality. I Guess u r a cute and stunningly beautiful.I myself faced such attitudes in my family circles.I know it very well that I m better than those n my childern and wife are more cute than those that’s why they do not spare to tease me.but I m confident and relax to the situation.
I know my position and their standing at the same time. the similar happens to you.
I bet that when u r among some people who are nice and good looking like u,u will feel good and they will react positively with you,coz they are standing at equal position or somehow in a better position to you.
when u accompany low level people than they will get jealous. so keep accompany people nice,goodlooking,and better than u to avoid such situations.

Take care of urself.

zahidullah khan Gabari
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Thanks but I dont think it was my look I meant back in the day I didnt know how to used makeup or used a hair straighter. I was born with ADHD which kinda made me standout I meant I try my hardest to not let my disability control me. But when I got to middle school some people figure it out & started to pick on me.

[quote Space Weaver]Though you had alot of pain when you were young, you know someday the same people who pulled you down will some day call you boss, after they plead to you for a job.[/quote]

yeah I guess so people say to me alot lol

[quote R.A.M]Ouch!
That wasnt very nice stuff to happen to some one…
Great to hear your in a better place thoug and glad youve move on!
And am sure in the end its made you a stronger person :) Hopefully wiser too…[/quote]

thanks :) yeah it took many years to forgiven them I meant at the time I wanted to be friends yet they tease me & i thought there was something wrong with me but throught out the years I learn that I just need to be me & that it okay if somepeople dont like me cuz they dont know me. that I should be happy with the people around me who do care about me!

[quote Sans Unleashed]Good for you for forgiving, and enduring, and overcoming.[/quote]

mhm