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• So I really don’t know what to do anymore. posted (6 months, 2 weeks) ago
  My mom found out in February that she has cancer. Our family was getting along just great until we …

• Life confuses me. posted (1 year, 6 months) ago
  I feel empty inside. Sometimes I feel like there’s nothing motivating me to wake up in the mor…

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• Which one of these thing don’t belong?
  

  Hey, don’t be sorry… it’s alright to vent these kind of things. Sometimes it’s also alright to let your roommates know how you feel; they may help you out. Also, get out there and meet some new people. It is easier said than done, but there are times where you just have to get over that hump and then soon enough, it’s downhill the rest of the way!
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago

• So tired of my life…I am 21 years old.
  

  Hey, I’m your age too. No girlfriend either and I know I don’t completely understand how you feel, but I want you to know that I don’t want you to give up. Life is hard at this age because everyone expects so much of you. We’re at that age where everyone expects us to transition from a mere teenager to a fully independent adult. Don’t feel like that though… I want you to realize that there is a lot of life left (like many other people mentioned above). There’s a ton of time ahead of you that you can use to show another college what you’re really made of, to find that special girl, to find friends, and to make your parents even more proud than they are now! Hang in there… don’t give up! I believe that you ARE SOMEONE!
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago

• I’m a 17-year old pre-college student who has good grades, amazing friends and family, and a suicide problem.
  

  I know this is easier said than done, but if he’s a great guy and if he loves you, try talking to him. Tell him what you wrote here. I’m sure he’ll understand. Just remember that you need to forgive yourself for making a mistake and that it’s not the end of the world yet. Believe in yourself. This world needs more people who are smart, friendly, and family oriented - people just like you! Don’t give up. There’s a lot more in store for you (and I’m sure a lot of great things) in the future.
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

• good bye mr nice guy?
  

  Hey lance_153, I’m one of those guys who people consider a nice guy and I totally thought the same thing as you too. I am still single which sucks, but someone told me this: “Yeah, nice guys may finish last, but nice guys usually end up with the best rewards in the end.” So don’t lose hope, I’m sure a nice guy like you will get what he deserves! Just stay confident.
  - written 4 months, 2 weeks ago

• I feel incredibly alone again tonight.
  

  Sometimes, it’s a good thing to do things that you want, but make sure it’s not hurting anyone. If you need time to yourself, sometimes it is okay to be a little selfish and take care of yourself. If you don’t take care of yourself first, than you’ll be less motivated in life and will actually work less professionally at your job.
  
  When you help people out, sometimes you do need a rest from helping other people; it can sometimes be quite stressful. Take a candle for example, it helps us see when the power goes out, but at some point it’ll burn out if you just leave it there burning. You’re like the candle, you’re helping people out all the time when they’re in need of light, but you’re burning yourself out. Take a rest… take a breather… it’ll be good for you and it will allow you to help people better after you’re all rested.
  - written 6 months ago

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