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• Please help me calm down! posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  !! I’m freaking out, and I can’t stop crying even though I know it won’t help. I h…

• PLEASE HELP, I posted late last night entitled My boyfriend of 4 years, please read it and give me some advice, at this point we are arguing and I just posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  HELP, I posted late last night entitled My boyfriend of 4 years, please read it and give me some ad…

• Hello, posted (1 year, 11 months) ago
  I am the single mother of 3 beatiful kids, and just when I thought things were looking up Everythin…

• Hello everyone, I am writing for some advice about a recent automobile purchase. posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  My Brother went to a used car dealership in pinellas county, and he found a 97 Cadillac he really wa…

• I have a question about co-signing. posted (2 years, 7 months) ago
  If you Co-Sign for a significant other and you all break up, and he moves away. If i report the chan…

• I have been in an awkward relationship for three years now & I am wondering if it is finally time to call it quits. posted (2 years, 8 months) ago
  Please help. 3 years ago I met a family friend whom I had never seen before and is not attractive to…

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Msthang25's Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) he got me a diamond necklace
  

  Sweetheart it’s o.k. to cry when you feel confused. The relationship may be over but feelings just don’t die so easily. Maybe even though you guys are not together he thinks your still the best thing since candy and wanted to give you something nice. That was very admirable of you to try to return it, but if he will not accept it, just put it up for safe keeping. That way if he asks for it you have it and don’t have to give mixed feelings by wearing it. Good Luck and I wish you well.
  
  Happy Holidays
  
  - written 1 year, 11 months ago – voted for by 'smile'

• (1 vote) Both of my parents’ birthdays are approaching
  

  If all else fails consider buying yourself a visa gift card, they can be used by all ages, it’s what I gave all my nieces and nephews under 18 for X-Mas. Hopefully this works out for you. Or if you do get some help, make sure its truly someone you trust. Depending on your parents, you could even consider letting them know what your plans are that way they get their gift and you still pay for it, but I figure you want it to be a surprise. Good Luck.
  
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago – voted for by rachel_roxy5

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• Please help me calm down!
  

  Shes in lease and loves to be alone, but after while she’ll have no chose. I’m usually not so negative, but like you said at this point everything looks bleak. Thank you for taking the time out to help me calm down. I really do appreciate it.
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• Please help me calm down!
  

  She doesn’t live with me (yet) she may have no chose without me being able to help her. She is 63 with no income and I have been screaming my brains out for her to apply for Social Security or disability or something, because she’s really in no condition to work physically and mentally her self esteem is tore down courtesy of my step dad. Thanks for responding, you don’t know how good it feels to be able to vent instead of cry & scream at walls!!!
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• Please help me calm down!
  

  I know right, my first thought but where I live is 3.5 miles from the nearest bus stop, and I have to be on site at 6:20 with my 10, 8, and 5 year olds. Even with a car we would have to be up and out by 5:50 to get there on the bus we couldn’t because the first bus comes to late to get me there on time, and would mean being out of the house with the kids by 4:00am to get there if it came on time. Believe me, I have thought of everything at this point. Thanks for the suggestion though.
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• My boyfriend of 4 years and I have been having problems for the last two years and I have tried to work through them until this.
  

  Thanks everyone, ithink I am ready to move on.
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• My boyfriend of 4 years and I have been having problems for the last two years and I have tried to work through them until this.
  

  Thank you all for replying. I understand he has needs and some have more needs than others, I have tried to provide for his needs and I guess I feel it’s all about him and he isn’t taking into consideration my needs. When this all began We had sex on a Sat. then on Tuesday I had surgery so no sex for 2-6 weeks. I could maybe understand a little better if this had gone on any other time but why now, and why this. I have told him he should leave and move on but he refuses. I have seen a therapist and really worked through my issues. I have tried to get him to see a doctor and a therapist he won’t go. I am tired of always being the one stressing and struggling to fix our problems we are supposed to be in a relationship. I have talked him through different things and nothing seems to work and I keep telling him it’s not fair for him to want to bother me ALL the time for his own personal gain if I’m getting nothing back. You all have to understand I have put up with alot and went against everyone to try and make this relationship work but it’s taking a toll on me, mind body and soul. I want to leave but I have 3 kids and if he leaves, I loose the little financial support he provides (kids are not his) and he’ll take my only means of transportation to spite me, and there is nothing I can legally do. I’m stuck and it’s not getting better! I’m currently looking for another job so I won’t have to depend on him, but he sabatogies everything I try to do, work, loose weight, & have friends. It’s all a ploy to leave him. I just don’t know what to do.
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

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