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• Boy Troubles posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  I was friends with this guy for a long time, and i started to fall for him. We go to school together…

• I feel like giving up :( posted (2 years, 3 months) ago
  I recently got my exam results back and i didn’t do great. I got an E in my favourite subject …

• Ok so I talked to him, what now? posted (2 years, 3 months) ago
  Yeah, so you all told me to go speak to the guy i talked to over facebook. so i did and now he talk…

• Talking online, to a guy you say nothing to at school… posted (2 years, 4 months) ago
  I speak to this guy online, I really like him, but at school we say nothing to one another. like one…

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• (1 vote) i’m going to kill myself tonight,
  

  DO NOT KILL YOURSELF! you only get one shot at life and although this seems like the easy option, its not. it will be painful and slow and what if you start to regret it half way through? DONT DO IT! you are not alone, many feel like this! And don’t shut people out, aren’t there clubs you can join? you can get a new job. It’ll be a fresh start, new job, new friends, you have just moved into the area! Come on you can do this, conquer your depression, don’t let it stop you from doing things you’ve always wanted, you still have so much to live for!
  
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago – voted for by ....................

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• Hey,
  

  This is hard but it appears that your friend doesn’t want to lose you but she also is a bit uncomfortable by the fact that you have a crush on her which tbf is fair enough. Are you sure that you actually fancy her and its not just really string best friend love that you’ve fallen into the trap of? But if you do fancy her then I’m afraid she does not see you the same way. You must be strong for the pair of you, do pretend like nothing happened. dont be alone together too much spend time with others. you should definately try to move on because unfortunatly nothing is going to happen. She defo wants to be your friend, and to do that your going to have to try really hard for her,
  
  good luck
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• is this suspicious behavior to you or am i paranoid?
  

  yes you are right to have suspicions, sounds like he’s up to no good, maybe an internet dating site or porn. You should either confront him or wait for him to do it again but be more sneaky so you can catch him in the act.
  Although he might not be doing either and trying to sneakily buy you a present or a holiday for maybe an anniversary, and if he is it would be awful if you confronted him. why don’t you see if this happens often or whether it was a one off. then you can decide what to do? Good luck :D
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• What the heck happened?
  

  Nah he may be one of these lads who just wanted sex with you, and eventually he gave up on you when he got he wanted from this other girl. I think you should give up on him and forget him.
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

• 10 signs that you know your falling in love…i saw this on like on facebook
  

  yeah, girls, eh? *******,all ******* in their own way, but hey they are your friends, remember why they’re your friends they must have good qualities!! the girl that talks about her bf all the time, totally natural, shes a girl shes soooo very happy that shes got herself this amazing guy that makes her happy and she wants to share that with you, it’ll die down soon (hopefully) if she talks about her having sex with him you’ve gotta tell her straight that you don’t want to hear that thank you very much!
  
  I think your very close to this guy, and to be honest i think your starting to fall for him if not already fallen…. its kind of difficult because you don’t want to ruin your friendship,
  DO YOU WANT TO BE WITH HIM??? when you see him does your heart swell with happiness and do you want to kiss him, hold his hand, have a long romantic cuddle? these are the things you have to ask yourself!
  You also have to ask yourself do you think he wants to be with you or does he just see you as a friend? If you think he does, then go ahead ask him out! it could be the start of a beautiful relationship.
  Oh and if he has any faults, which he will have but because your so head over heels you don’t see them, you should look and see if you can cope with them if your in a long term relationship. Unfortunately when ppl 1st get together they don;t notice the bad stuff and then once it dies down they start to notice them, just a word of warning from a wise woman :D
  
  So come on you can do it, make up your mind, I believe in you xx
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

• Nah Nah Nah Come on!
  

  so just coz you have just finished being a teen, your emotions will be still messed up, give them time, they’ll settle, eventually! I hope you can sort yourself out :)
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

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