2012-03-14 14:31:43 on Hey,
This is hard but it appears that your friend doesn’t want to lose you but she also is a bit uncomfortable by the fact that you have a crush on her which tbf is fair enough. Are you sure that you actually fancy her and its not just really string best friend love that you’ve fallen into the trap of? But if you do fancy her then I’m afraid she does not see you the same way. You must be strong for the pair of you, do pretend like nothing happened. dont be alone together too much spend time with others. you should definately try to move on because unfortunatly nothing is going to happen. She defo wants to be your friend, and to do that your going to have to try really hard for her,
2012-03-14 13:53:12 on is this suspicious behavior to you or am i paranoid?
yes you are right to have suspicions, sounds like he’s up to no good, maybe an internet dating site or porn. You should either confront him or wait for him to do it again but be more sneaky so you can catch him in the act.
Although he might not be doing either and trying to sneakily buy you a present or a holiday for maybe an anniversary, and if he is it would be awful if you confronted him. why don’t you see if this happens often or whether it was a one off. then you can decide what to do? Good luck :D
2011-03-20 14:45:42 on What the heck happened?
Nah he may be one of these lads who just wanted sex with you, and eventually he gave up on you when he got he wanted from this other girl. I think you should give up on him and forget him.
2011-02-28 13:03:42 on 10 signs that you know your falling in love…i saw this on like on facebook
yeah, girls, eh? *******,all ******* in their own way, but hey they are your friends, remember why they’re your friends they must have good qualities!! the girl that talks about her bf all the time, totally natural, shes a girl shes soooo very happy that shes got herself this amazing guy that makes her happy and she wants to share that with you, it’ll die down soon (hopefully) if she talks about her having sex with him you’ve gotta tell her straight that you don’t want to hear that thank you very much!
I think your very close to this guy, and to be honest i think your starting to fall for him if not already fallen…. its kind of difficult because you don’t want to ruin your friendship,
DO YOU WANT TO BE WITH HIM??? when you see him does your heart swell with happiness and do you want to kiss him, hold his hand, have a long romantic cuddle? these are the things you have to ask yourself!
You also have to ask yourself do you think he wants to be with you or does he just see you as a friend? If you think he does, then go ahead ask him out! it could be the start of a beautiful relationship.
Oh and if he has any faults, which he will have but because your so head over heels you don’t see them, you should look and see if you can cope with them if your in a long term relationship. Unfortunately when ppl 1st get together they don;t notice the bad stuff and then once it dies down they start to notice them, just a word of warning from a wise woman :D
So come on you can do it, make up your mind, I believe in you xx
2011-02-27 13:35:17 on Nah Nah Nah Come on!
so just coz you have just finished being a teen, your emotions will be still messed up, give them time, they’ll settle, eventually! I hope you can sort yourself out :)
2011-02-27 13:14:11 on Nah Nah Nah Come on!
You a teen gal?
2011-02-27 12:59:17 on 10 signs that you know your falling in love…i saw this on like on facebook
I feel that you can’t be in love with someone until you’ve been in a relationship with them, so to me this sounds more like a crush, this can range from quite a deep crush to ‘mmm he’s cute’ sort of thing. I would say your somewhere in the middle if I’m honest. And also, as he is your friend you may love him as a friend, is he your main guy friend? Because if he is, you may feel like you fancy him because you can be yourself round him, you can completely relax and you like that so you think that if your with him it will be like this (yeah brains play tricks on you!) if you think that being with him would be awesome then thats great, but remember friendship is very important! you need to figure out your feelings, and then decide,
hope this was helpful, good luck :)
[quote Anonymous]i think that i can do that, i have prayed so much to just let this all go, and its been almost 2 weeks and it isn’t as hard as it once was. sometimes when i get to missing him,i think about all the changes he put me through, and then i almost feel a sense of relief that we aren’t together. you are right, he is cruel to a certain degree, and a master manipulator. he does play “hot and cold” quite often. i am going to cut all ties with him, it would be for the best, but it still hurts so much. i appreciate your help with this very, very much. now any ideas as how to get him out of my mind?[/quote]
glad you’ve seen sense, the next step is always the hardest, because even thou he’s been bad to you, it hard to get rid of those feelings straight away. Hang around with your friends, without him!! after a while when the pain is slightly less, you can start to find the perfect guy again :) At least now you know what to look for and you won’t get messed around! YAY!
and your welcome for the advice :) again good luck
remember why you broke up with him! its all about trust, why don’t trust him? If you can’t trust him there is no point trying again because you’ll be jumpy all the time, and anxious! BAD! If you think a face to face convo would help then you won’t lose anything by doing it. just be hesitant, this your happiness that you’re hanging in the balance. If he doesn’t bring you happiness there is no point what so ever getting back together with him. These feelings your feeling is loneliness because you don’t have him there anymore. Don’t worry it’ll soon disappear but don’t go with someone else unless your sure that its not a rebound relationship because you’ll end up hurting the other person!
2011-02-26 13:19:19 on What would you choose?
which ever one you fall in love with, you might prefer the one with no personality but i would go with number two, im more attracted to someone who can make me laugh and happy than someone who is vain…
2011-02-26 13:16:19 on My boyfriend never gets any sleep!
[quote Anonymous]If you guys are sexualy active just make him lie still for a while after sex and he may fall asleep.[/quote]
Also good advice :)
2011-02-26 13:15:05 on My boyfriend never gets any sleep!
leave him to it, if you start going on at him, he’ll get grumpy, I know your trying to help him out but….you know what boys are like! Its his own problem then
If its messing with your relationship tell him your worried about him and how you feel, if that doesn’t get through to him maybe he’s not the guy for you….
good luck :)
2011-02-26 13:05:04 on i’m going to kill myself tonight,
DO NOT KILL YOURSELF! you only get one shot at life and although this seems like the easy option, its not. it will be painful and slow and what if you start to regret it half way through? DONT DO IT! you are not alone, many feel like this! And don’t shut people out, aren’t there clubs you can join? you can get a new job. It’ll be a fresh start, new job, new friends, you have just moved into the area! Come on you can do this, conquer your depression, don’t let it stop you from doing things you’ve always wanted, you still have so much to live for!
2011-02-26 12:49:46 on Feel so alone and unwanted.
uni means university or college…I don’t know where your at, england, america? you can confide in me but im not on skype…sorry! then i can try and see what the problem is and help you out! fingers crossed, so do you have msn? or you could just email me…feel free :) tell me what you want to do (don’t like to give personal details away) get back to me x
2011-02-23 13:52:49 on I was woudering why is it a bad for some one to kill them self?
If the person is having alot of pain and is suffering alot and is going to die anyway then it is up to them to end their life…(its illegal in most countries)
If its depression then thats different, the person needs help to allow themselves to see sense, you only get one chance at life….