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It will hurt, but thats okay it means that it it meant something.

It wont hurt this bad forever.

Take time to mourn.

For me, writing thing down helps. Write the positive… write a goodbye, write what is still good in your life.

Sorry, … it will be okay.

I see him as online every so often but haven’t heard an update in a month or so…

I would worry about why she/he is asking NOW? If there is a guilty conscience, or maybe hearing a rumour or she/he is feeling they want more expirences?

Please. I could use some words. I am trying so hard. i feel like i am really starting to drown and loose myself in these thoughts.

Depemds on the people involved. I would have never said this a year ago. But wait until at least 25 years old. changes happend and be together but make sure the chanhes bring you together… then get married. Talk about all the maujor things you want and when you want them first. Work, where you want to live, what type of home, children, your families, retirement….

Yes!

You’ll be out of pain shortly after this. You wont have to worry about the pain or the look of the tooth, or the worry that the infection could spread.

You are a strong lady and even though it’ll be hard to put your butt in the chair. you’ll be okay.

I hate going I went last when i lost half a tooth due to a stone in my food. I tell everyone how nervious I am. I get a Rx of ativan to help me get into the chair.

Think of all of us here who yuo have reached out to and helped, now we are all thinking of you.

@Beans

I have read youre optimism in other posts. You amaze me with that, even putting aside what you are dealing with.

I just have a hard tome seeing beyond my mistakes and moving on.

Thanks for the suggestions.

It was my birth mother who said those things, my mother who raised me is awesome beyond belief.

I havent been able to search for my mother or my birth family due to the nasty words she wrote in a letter while I was a new born. And as an adult I can empathize and try to image she was in a ****** mindset but, I was the second child she gave up.

Yes, I take a pill for to relax my muscles that also relaxes me a bit. But yeah its stress.

I have made some poor choices and am trying to work though. But they are surfacing tonight.

plus being up at 3:25 am… but thats not new…

I just am feeling myself loosing grip with my body image and food issues.. it seems the least of my problems … but its a moment by moment thing that effect almost every move i make.

[quote LazyMcCoolBeans]Hiya :)

What exactly do you have!?

I had cancer that lowered my immune system to the point my skin started attacking itself, I have to take steroids daily now to prevent my skin getting all blistered and falling off, luckily with the steroids I look like there is nothing wrong with me but it causes other issues that can not be helped and the annoying thing is you have a choice of one or the other but not to have the choice of being 100% fit and healthy.

It is a pain in the butt.

My heart goes out to you in what you are battleing. I watched my Mom go through breat cancer and its hard. So koodos to you and your postitive attitude and kicking cancers ***.

I am not battling life or death. I have a musclular disorder, that wont ever be cired and I have day surgery every 4 months… ugh… But ENDOS is eating disorder
not otherwise specified. meaning a grab bag of eavery eating disorder. Its be under control for years now. But with my personal life is chaos its popping up again.
Tell me more about you.[/quote]

[quote Anonymous]Try to be brave through this Cupcake7. You belong here and deserve the best that life has to offer. You are a very special person, and if you are not happy with yourself than think about changing what you can not accept.
There are so many of us who don’t like ourselves and things that we have done. But, we forgive ourselves made amends and go forward. A Self-destructive attitude doesn’t get anyone anywhere. It’s like crumbling inside a little at a time.
When this happens all we see is our physical self but, we are more than that.
You are important and can be more important if you would face the fact that you are no accident, that you were intended to be here on this earth and to do something important with your life. Loving yourself allows you to share and give to others.[/quote]

I normallly hate “quoting”, just an aesthetics thing, but you made a few nerves fire… in a good way.

I am trying to learn how to forgive myself, but disipsing myself is making that rough and eating away at any steps I take.

I know I have a purpose in life, but an accident I sure am. adopted, and told so in a letter by my birth mother I was a mistake and she resents me. I dont carry that with me, the sing of the words, but what said brought that up.

I love it! I know what you mean… ha.

Lovely.. ??…

Are you a woman?…

man flu?… ha.. I thought it might be a play on words at first…

Sorry to hear you are sick.