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• Sometimes… I wish people believed in me.
  

  It’s always hard to hear it from those you love, I feel for you. Just know that this is their way of loving you. We all express it differently.
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

• i cant sleep
  

  melatonin is an over the counter dietary supplement that is found in food like peanut butter, or maybe it’s something the body creates in response to certain foods like peanut butter. I’m hoping you like peanut butter
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

• The best way to re-heat pastry without a microwave or oven?
  

  I like the prison food way better. But then again, a really hot bulb would do the trick if you have a table light of some sort. OR, we can put the pastry on our iPhone and let Pandora run for about an hour while charging, that should get the GBs going.
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

• Can two people who work together, have feelings for each other and almost slept together remain just friends?
  

  I’m not going to comment on the “cheating” aspect because it’s not my place. But once you cross the line, you can’t un-cross it. You didn’t sleep together, well at least there’s that. But clearly it’s going to be awkward. Remain friends? Only if you two can talk about what happened and resolve whatever it is that’s going on.
  
  It’s easy to flirt with single people. But if you’re trying to hook up with a married person with a kid, just know what your getting into. Are you ready for that person to leave their spouse and fall for you? Just add water, instant family.
  
  Maybe it was a mistake and you just want to move on. Great, have the “conversation” and move on. It will probably be weird until you do.
  
  By the way, interoffice romances always get caught. Your co-workers will suspect it earlier than you think, trust me.
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

• I am very shy and have trouble making friends.
  

  College was both lonely and fun for me.
  
  But looking back now, my loneliness came from me not getting involved enough. As a freshman or even sophomore, we still have our High school hangups. We worry about what everyone thinks and withdraw from the groups because we are afraid.
  
  College is probably the most welcoming society in America today. Do yourself a favor and join a club, sorority, or social group. There is one for everyone, maybe more. You’ll be able to find people just like yourself, in the same situation, with the same interests.
  
  You gotta put yourself out there. It’s hard I know, but this isn’t high school. It’s time to discover yourself and part of that means discovering others. It’s OK to get shot down by someone you like, or get rejected by a particular group. It hurts, but you’ll find your groove eventually.
  
  Just smile and say hello. The person that everyone knows and likes is usually the one that doesn’t care about any of it. Other people’s issues are not your issues. Send the love out and I promise it will come back to you.
  
  I was shy, super shy. Then I took a couple of acting classes just for the fun of it, and i met some great people. I also learned to start acting. I learned that sometimes, “You Gotta Fake It Until you Make It.” If your shy, act the opposite. Be outrageous and wild, people like it. Act confident and completely the opposite of what your feeling on the inside. Sometimes, the feelings you have on the inside start to change to mirror your “acting.”
  
  Try smiling at people your attracted to tomorrow. I bet some smile back! Get their number…I bet they’ll be just as stoked as you.
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

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