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• Stock options. posted (6 months, 3 weeks) ago
  My employeer gives me stock options….that vest 250 per year. What does that mean, vest?…

• What orchestras does Calgary have? posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
  Specifically baroque? Is the CPO the only one that ever is in town?…

• Where in Canada can I go to find an IT position which posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  - Cheap housing - Pays high (60k+) - Low taxation. I have a degree in Computer Science with 2 y…

• Does she like me? posted (1 year, 12 months) ago
  I’m confused. Would a girl ever like a guy and then pretend not to? if so why? So there is …

• So I handed in my 2 week notice (resignation) to a place I’m working at. posted (2 years, 1 month) ago
  They come back at me with a counter-offer, which I later declined. Now comes the interesting poin…

• Winking. posted (2 years, 2 months) ago
  What does it mean when someone winks at you as they talk? Even when they wink more than once? I&#…

• Why are woman very emotional? posted (2 years, 2 months) ago
  Does it enhance their life or make it harder? Also, why do they usually try to hide their true fe…

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cerv's Top (4) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) My GF thinks I’m cheating, and she has some very good reasons to do so.
  

  I guarantee that it is a woman who likes you, maybe at school or work, who likes you and is trying to cause a break up so that she can come in. A woman once did the samt thing to be, albeit there was no phone involved.
  
  
  [Solutions]
  -Call me captain obvious, but try CHANGING YOUR PHONE NUMBER. Make sure to make your new number “unlisted.”
  
  -Next, call your phone company and report the harassment. Don’t bother explaining the entire story; just say it is criminal harassment.
  
  Record the last date/time she called, and get the operator to look at their internal list of calls and have the operator look up who called you at that date time.
  
  Then go to your local police/sheriff’s office and get a restraining order so that she cannot call you or come near you.
  
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  Do not confront the woman about this; not only does she lie, but she is obsessed. And that my friend is a mental disorder.
  
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago – voted for by Bobsmyname

• (1 vote) i want to know how to earn money so that i can do my study/?
  

  Play World of Warcraft, earn in game gold and sell it for real money.
  
  - written 2 years, 5 months ago – voted for by aviators_rahu

• (1 vote) Where can I get an interest free loan?
  

  The only country that I know of which gives near zero interest loans is Japan.
  
  - written 2 years, 5 months ago – voted for by mndztm

• (1 vote) I am lost… what should I do?
  

  careful about the question. Sounds like the above posters are perhaps describing pleasure, fear, dependence…
  
  
  Real love has no pain. It is timeless. There is no concept of “me” involved. It is not something which is broken if not reciprocated.
  
  No one can tell you what it is since it is an emotion. You must experience it for yourself.
  
  Jiddu Krishnamurti is very good at helping people realize things like this. Take 10minutes to read his material.
  http://www.ratical.org/many_worlds/K/K3.html
  http://seekeraftertruth.com/wp-print.php?p=9
  
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago – voted for by -Jay-

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• How was your last break up?
  

  There is nothing worse than the feeling of abandonment. When a woman abandons a man for whatever reason.
  
  I feel heart broken, but happy at the same time that she left me now as opposed to later. It shows that she had a deficiency in character and a lacking in moral substance.
  
  How do I take it? Well it never goes away. You never quite love a woman the same way.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• why can’t i find love?
  

  You know what,
  
  It could be because you are standoffish and are totally oblivious to it. I know a woman who was in the same situation, and was literally traumitized because men simply would not ask her out, nor would they bring her flowers, or persue her.
  
  The problem was simply because her body language said “go away.” She was very standoffish and never even realized it.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• I’m tired of things like money, cars, fashion, tv, movies, media and how they warp countless individuals perception of what matters.
  

  It’s called grazing in complacency. Neitzsche noticed it 100 years ago. People complain, but they really aren’t complaining–they are just making small chitchat. Small talk.
  
  The average person really isn’t that smart. So we cannot be surprised when they act ignorantly.
  
  We are only one this earth for a short period. So enjoy all of the materialistic thigns you can while you still have time.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• I’m so depressed right now.
  

  Enjoy life one day at a time. Focus on the now. Live in the now not the past.
  
  Go read a book called Hagakure. Google it and you’ll find an online version.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• Im 13 and i’m still afraid of the dark.
  

  Fear no evil my friend.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

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