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Hey Hi, How are you doing. Long time no see. How is your life going on. I hope everything is right on the track now. miss you n’ take care

I am doing quite good.Even My life has become very busy after this new job. ok so just keeping smile and take care. see you

hey hi, how are you doing. long time, no see. looks like you have been pretty busy lately. take care n’ miss you

Everyone has ups and downs in one’s life. but you can’t give up. and I don’t know why you can’t trust people anymore, but if you wish you can share your problem here. there are lots of nice people here, who will listen to you and will give you the appropriate suggestions.

:) I just want you to be happy

then let me know. you need to talk about your problems. if you keep it with yourself. it will become worse. you need to share it.

Nope you are wrong. you have to think again about it. you may be not able to think in the right direction,but you need to think positively. we can talk about it. You got to believe me

I honestly don’t know your situation well and feel that my offered solutions are probably not directly relevant. Like, I’m just talking about emotions, and might have no clue about how to improve your relationships — while it may be that you could just improve your relations with the people somehow.

And I agree that even to the extent that my advice may have been relevant, these things are easier said than done.

Still, if you can come up with simple ideas that seem like the desired state or solution, it’s usually possible to take the steps to get there.

Hey, I realize I may have gone way into realms of unhelpfulness on your post. Sorry about that, it was just hard to explain what I meant so I talked more and more and more.

I can understand that what are you going through. but you need to be strong and just think about the positive outcomes of it. See dear, whatever happens, happens for the best and you will have to believe in it.

What does that mean?
Are you still thinking about all those stuffs?

Hi Marie, how are you doing. take care

You know Marie, that’s the problem with human being. They feel stupid when they talk about their feelings, while it’s completely ok and I think one should talk about his/her feelings. God has blessed us with this extraordinary stuff called feelings and we should express it. They is nothing stupid in it. So just be happy and keep smiling. and you know i am there for u :)

see Marie, I can understand what are you going through. I am always there to listen to you. If you wish you can share whatever you want. and People say I am a good listener.

hahaha. you know what you are being very formal. when i told i am available 24*7 for you, then i mean it. i am always there, if you need my help.

Hey, you don’t need to be sorry about anything and for your kind information it was not a small issue. I can understand it was tough for you. But i am proud of you, as you have been strong and took the right decision for you. and sweetheart, I am always there for you, if you every need my advice or help, just let me know if you need me. take care n’ keep smiling :)

ok Marie, so i am off to bed as it’s really night here. i need to go to office morrow, so just keep smiling and take care. and in between, if you wish you can find me in facebook by Jyoti Jwala Jainendram

See Marie, this is a really very big decision, and for this sort of decision, you mind and heart both should be ok with it. but in this it is not with you. so, I don’t think you should take this decision and the most important thing he is not earning, how would he look after you. I will suggest better you concentrate on your career, studies and future, that is more important. You are in a very critical phase of your life, a simple mistake can make you repent whole life. I am not trying to scare you, but showing you the reality. Hope you understand. take care n’ i am 24*7 for you. :)

i can understand your concern Marie and you are very true at it. for a mature relation, you need a mature partner, but he is not trying to grow up. then it will not be a good idea to move in with him. and in between how are you doing now.

I would love to stay with him, but I can’t do so if he’s not going to be responsible. So, I’m still not very sure, but as my selfish personality, I told my mother to not accept this new offer. She’s actually considering, because we just moved and everything. I love him very much, but still surprises me the fact he can not “grow up”. It sometimes sacares me that he might not be able to…
Marie.

ok. i got your point and i totally agree with you n’ with your concerns. when he is in relationship with you, then it’s not just about him. it’s about you too. That’s ok, he is going to some beach with his friends, but he is planning to extend his stay, atleast he should inform you, as you must be worrying about him becoz you care about him. he may love you, but he is not yet very responsible. it’s still about him not about us. and the most important question, which i asked. what you want you want to stay with him or move out with your parents. and one personal question. I still don’t know your name.

Thank you so much really.
Well he’s doing his best on the relationship, but it’s his actions what gets me so upset. It’s like I want him to change what can not be changed, you know ? I feel like he so unresponsible or maybe I am just a bit too responsible for him. Sometimes I feel horrible by what he does. For example he left to the beach with his friends that’s fine because he said it was only 5 days, I mean whatever he has his own “liberty” which I totally respect but then he is missing for 3 more days. I get worried and call his parents they say he’s staying a bit longer. That’s totally fine with me, but then he misses for 4 more days, his parents don’t know where he is, but I think or at least pretend I’m ok with it about it because he is with his friends. Then he appears on my front door kinda drunk, and sex stinking, trying to convince me to have sex with me. Wtf, really? that’s when I ask myself why on earth did I worry about him. But that’s not what pisses me off, what does, is the fact that he starts a fight on it, and that I’m so selfish about the issue, and whatsoever. I don’t say anything about it because there’s really no point on trying when he drank, but I told him to stay the night. The next day, he apologizes for everything and then everything comes down to me, and I get overwhelmed about it, because I’m somehow jealous about his life, he has to worry about nothing except for his studies, while I have to worry about everything. You see what I mean ? It’s just not really fair. I don’t even want to tell him about me moving until a couple of days before actually moving, if I do, of course.

hey sweetie, first of all, you never bother me. you are a friend and i am always there for you. If my suggestions help you, I will be more than happy. It’s nice to know that your bf has changed himself and he is treating you nice. But now you need to take the decision whether you want to move in with your bf or move out with you parents. the decision would have been easy, if it was question of moving in same country, but as you told that your parents are moving to different country, it’s not that easy. now it’s not me, who will suggest you what to do. Somewhere in your heart, you know what you want to do. Do you think that if you stay here and move in with your bf. he will treat you nice because he will be the only one there, who you can believe. have you talked about all these to your boy friend, what he says about it. before all these i want to you, what you want, then only i can suggest you anything

anytime honey. After all a friend is meant for this, isn’t it. So how can i help you.

Hi :)

hi dear, how are you doing. howz life going on. Hey you never told me your name

You are always welcome, dear. hey are you on fb or not. if yes then add me up there.

Thank you so much, really.

I am doing good too. See honey, things change gradually. It’s really nice to know that you are improving a lot and you have finally gained some weight. I will say that you are well on course. so just keep it up

I’m better, thanks for asking. hbu ?
Though I’m still having lots of trouble with my parents..
I finally gained weight (’: well kinda..

But I’m still struggling, a lot.

Hey dear, how are you doing :)

mine is jainnendram at the rate of gmail dot com
or u can find me on facebook or in skype by jyoti jwala jainendram

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Mine is (email removed)

Or you can find me on facebook.

Hey dear, how are you doing. my email id (email removed). How is your life going on. I wish you must be enjoying your life.

That’d be great.
Thank you so much, really.

Ofcourse dear, I have always time for you. If you wish we can chat through mail. :)

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I’ll be there for you, whenever you need me. I think if we discuss on your problem and issues, we can solve it together. Just be patient :)