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• I’m having trouble losing weight! posted (2 years, 2 months) ago
  I’m 14 lbs heavier than I used to be all throughout school (I’m 22 now) and I can̵…

• I feel so depressed. posted (2 years, 2 months) ago
  I used to have so much energy but now I feel so tired and I’ve been sleeping alot. I’m …

• How can I make my answers say “help me with this question” at the end? posted (2 years, 2 months) ago
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• Will I ever get into a long term relationship? posted (2 years, 2 months) ago
  - Help! Hi there! My problem is that I’m 22 and I’ve never been in a relationship, no …

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• (1 vote) i still haven’t kissed a guy…
  

  Kissing does come naturally and I’m sure I’m sure you’ll be fine. I bet your guy is more clueless than you are (even if he has had previous girlfriends) since you are both still very young and you don’t know what each other likes. The first time you do ANYTHING you will be nervous but it will get better with practice, I promise.
  
  Seriously DO NOT worry about kissing and your virginity. There is no set time that you are supposed to do these things. I anyone wants to make fun of you or make you feel bad about not doing these things then that mean THEY have a problem not you! Anyway I never made out with anyone untill I was about 20 so don’t worry and I’m 22 and I’m still a virgin and I am not planning to lose my virginity any time soon, as I am not ready, and this is not a religious thing! DO NOT let him force you to do anything you don’t want to do!!! :-)
  
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• I feel so depressed.
  

  [quote Orchid164]I’m so sorry you feel this way, but please trust me when I say there is so much reason to keep on living. Although you may feel sad and drained now, there is still so much to live for and experience and I’m sure there are people who hate that you’re feeling this way, who care about you and would be destroyed if you were to kill yourself :( If you’re tired, get some more rest and take more breaks, make more time for yourself and time to go out maybe with friends and open up to tell them when you feel depressed like this. If you think your medication is making you feel more tired or miserable then talk to another doctor and see if there’s something else that could help. There are so many ways that you can be happy so please don’t give up on trying to find what makes you happy because it will be worth it whether you find it’s family, friends, aspirations like a career or a hobby that you love. If you kill yourself you’ll never know how great things could have turned out.
  
  I’m sorry if this really isn’t helping, and I know it’s hard not to but please don’t give up. Drinking may seem like a good idea to escape things but it will only make you feel worse in the morning, so try to do without it but if it makes you feel a little better right now then maybe I think a little is OK. I know what it’s like to feel so desperately sad and like the only thing to do is give up, but it’s so important that you don’t, life is precious. Please stay strong, I’m always here to talk if you need to. Sorry if I haven’t helped in any way[/quote]
  
  Hi there,
  
  I thats very nice post you are a wonderful person and you have definitely helped me. I’m trying not to give up but it is really hard. I really doubt anything nice will happen too me but can still get myself some cats to keep me company!!! yay!
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago

• I feel so depressed.
  

  [quote gfdgfdgd]NO SUICIDE! Suicide is not the answer. Somebody, somewhere loves you and would be VERY sad if you were gone. Just get more sleep, hang out with friends, and ask if you can stop taking the medication. And no alcohol. After your good-feeling high is over, you will feel even more depressed. Also try calling the 1-800-273-8255 hotline (listed above).[/quote]
  
  unfortunately I live in englnd so i cant use that number but thnks for your help!
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago

• Why do i feel like my life is a complete fail.
  

  I kind of know how you feel! You might have depression which is treatable. Just go to the doctor and tell him what you have written here. I know you may not feel it but you are lucky that you have a boyfriend who gives you relief from how you are feeling even if it is just for a short while and if - when you are alone - you just look forward to seeing him again it will make your life seem a bit brighter.
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago

• Am I crazy?
  

  No, you’re not crazy. Actually you are very normal as that is what the majority of people wnt to do with their lives!
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago

• Looks…
  

  You sound like you’re very attractive. The media tells everyone that a skinny barbie doll look with lots of makeup and fake tan is attractive but in real life most people will find natural looking people with gorgeous curves more physically attractive. Scientifically curves subconsciously signal that you are a healthy mate with good reproductive abilities and that is why lots of people will find you attractive! :-) Anyway because everyone is different each person will find different things physically attractive so there will definitely be people who find you attractive.
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago

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