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Growing up means taking responsibility for your actions. Tell your mother and father that you lnow what you did was wrong. Tell them that you are sorry and will not do that again. Also make sure you let them know that you not only let them down but it sounds like you let yourself down as well. I feel you have learned alot from this mistake. Life is about making mistakes and learning from them.

IF you are not ready for that kind of temptation or not strong enough for that temptation. Don’t go. You sound like a stroung person. IF you can resist temptation and not fall either one of you then your relationship has just grown a thousand folds

AS long as you make it clear what your intentions are i don’t see why not?

Thanks I just talked to her and she said she is willing to go to a councelor. So I hope everything works out. Say a prayer for my family.

is you spam gaurd turned on? Ihad the same trouble but I had to turn my spam guard off and I got the e-mail. Which internet provider do you use or email are you using?

To answer the first responce when I found the numbers to repeat themselves I noticed it was when I was either at work or had just called her frm=om my cell. WE hae the family plan and I went to add some pics to our online album and saw those pics there. I saw that they were sent. I didn’t recieve them so I saw that they were sent to this married man. He works with her. I don’t really know him. I know that he travels alot and that he is seldom home with his wife.

To answer the second responce, I found out about the numbers three days ago. She told me hta she had made a conection with someone at work. When I found the pictures she started to cry and said “I was being stupid, I didn’t want to hurt you.” I then told her today that I didn’t wnt her to talk to this guy and she told me “I am not going to not talk to him he is still a friend. Don’t you think that I can control my actions?” So I am confused this seems to be more than a conection. She has been hidding this for a while.

Hey, Life is hard sometimes. Hae you tried to talk to someone about wht is making you depressed? I would try to find out what triggers your anxiety and then maybe write in a journel or find a close freind or even a councelor to talk with. Remember life is to short to sweat the small stuff and there is no big stuff

Hey if you do end up dating her be up front with her and tell her about you obligations and prior commitments and that you might not be able to spend as much time wither as you would like. That way she already knows what you are all about

She may be scared to enter a relationship with someone that may be as close as you two are. She might want to go in a group to make her feel more at ease. Have you openly talked to her and stated something like, I really like you you make my world go round,I would like to take you out so you and I can get to know a little more from one another? Tell her your true and honest feelings. Don’t be pushy just tell her how you feel at that moment in time

I agree sometimes competetive sports get you more rawled up! Try a walk or a jog in a near by park

Try to understand what triggers the anger. Try to understand it and then avoid it if at all cost. IS it anger or agression? that is two diffrent things. IF you are trully angry, than step back, take a deep breath and try to think positive thoughts. Troveler of the worlds right, don’t sweat the small stuff and there ain’t no big stuff.

I think that it is hard to deal with infedelity and I wonder if you trully do love her. I gather that if you both try than you will be able to work things out. There will be tremendous pain and hurt for a while. Stay the course and if there is love in thier than true love always prevails!