freakofnature's shout trail with greejosh1 - Help.com

greejosh If someone knows that they would ot be able to give the child a good life, and it would ruin theres don’t you think that there are some circumstances where the child would be better off never being born.

No tell me would it be better to for the child not to be born, or to ruin the lives of so many people?

the same pattern would then continue, because that will be the way the child would be raised. Someone of such a young age can not even emotionally handle raising a child.

No Josh, I do understand what you are saying. Here tell me what you should do in this scenario. a 13 year old girl has unprotected sex, and finds herself pregnant. She can not identify the father. She lives in a poor neighborhood. Her parents refuse to help her raise the child which means that she would have to drop out of school ruining her chance of a future. The mother and child would grow up in dirt poor conditions. The mother can not avoid childcare so either the mother would be unable to play, or the child would be left unattended. The mother would receive no education and would have a low chance of marriage. The mother would not be able to afford her child’s education, so the pattern would continue.

i did not mean to pis her off but i think that if you can have the kid without killing the mother then you should have it. sorry for the misunderstanding

Greejosh she has enough to worry about don’t pressure her. If the doctor says that the pregnancie could effect her health, or if she just does not feel mentally prepared to give birth that is her decision. You do not know what is going on in her life, or her mind, you have no right to tell her that an abortion would “be bad for the child’s sake”. If she knows that the child would not be able to be properly raised by a stable parent then it could be better off that way.