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your name starts with h?

does that make me world?

Noticed you added me, so thought I’d say howdy.

Is that cuz you moved out of that guys house? I’m really glad you have a place to stay…

Sounds good to me, very practical. should keep you busy for awhile!

Do you do hair?

You should do one on how to put on make up, or how to choose a color for your skin tone :)

Hey, we are all learning :) Ill look them up :)

Really? Thats so cool :) Would you mind giving me your username so I can look it up, would love to watch :)

Haha, well make up is stinkin expensive!

Next time I have a make up question ill be sure to go to you :)

You should do tutorials on make up on youtube :) it would take your mind off your ex and help others :)

So not weird! I have a bag full of mascaras and things :)

haha Ill try it :) thanks :)

I wanted to ask you, what do you use as lipstick/gloss? The color is really pretty in your picture, I’m trying to pick out some for me :)

That’s good that you started singing and writing again! Sorry things had to go down that way but everything will work out for the better.

Yeah? What have you figured out?

Not too bad. How are you doing?

Hi,
I have read your post and was one of the people that commented on it.

I just hope that all is well with you.

You are welcome. :D

I know. But it seems like relationships are never simple. Keep positive. I will keep positive for you too. :)

No problem. I know that long relationships can make it really hard to let go. :( But I hope you pull through and I wish you the best.

I added you as a friend. I’m rooting for you.

Don’t know what to do then sorry.

Then don’t go to bed and stay up with him.

While that is true, it is can also be a temporary reprieve from your emotions.

Sleep is good for times like this. There is actually a quote I have from a book I like that explains sleep well.

“Perhaps the greatest faculty our minds possess is the ability to cope with pain. Classic thinking teaches us of the four doors of the mind, which everyone moves through according to their need. First is the door of sleep. Sleep offers us a retreat from the world and all its pain. Sleep marks passing time, giving us distance from the things that have hurt us. When a person is wounded they will often fall unconscious. Similarly, someone who hears traumatic news will often swoon or faint. This the mind’s way of protecting itself from pain by stepping through the first door.” - The Name of the Wind

See sleep isn’t bad, it is a temporary release.

I hope you can breath alright soon.

I’ve never had problems with breathing but I would say just focus on deep and calming breaths and lie down.

It’s my best advice.

Sorry darling.

Well if you don’t feel like focusing on the issues at hand that is really the only other option.

Then you come home and immerse yourself into something entertaining and distracting and you do this until you and him agree that it’s time to discuss things in depth.

Keep your focus on your work and enjoy being with the kids. Escape into their imaginations with them perhaps. They have the best imaginations and they can always make you feel better. Kids are great like that, they can turn bad days better.

Find something that you can focus on whether it be a book, movie or game so you can escape for awhile but make sure you don’t run forever because it will only leave you feeling empty.

I can’t tell you that is not the case but I hope it isn’t.

You can wait or try and get him to talk again. It’s completely up to you. In my personal opinion, I say just let him know when he is ready to talk that you’re there for him but let him know you guys really need to get things straightened out. He doesn’t have to tell you what is wrong with him personally, but you two do need to address the relationship issues but this is just what I think would be a good idea. If the relationship is what is bugging him then let him know he has a certain amount of time (determined by you) to figure out how to tell you because it is too stressful on you.

Being afraid comes with the territory of these difficult situations unfortunately. Just don’t focus on being without him, keep pleasant and positive thoughts in your mind because there is still hope.

If you don’t then you take it from there and pick up the pieces but right now focus on trying to make it work. Just try and put the what ifs out of your mind but simultaneously make sure you have a general idea of what you are going to do if things go badly.

I know it isn’t a pleasant position to be in but you are here and you are going to have to figure out how to make it through this. If you feel extremely overwhelmed you could write like you told me to do. It helped a lot and maybe, just maybe, it might help you feel a little better.

Don’t pay attention to them. Just do what you feel like you need to do because that is what matters. You and Alex will work through this, today was just the explosion to start the change.

You alright?

its all good, and yes im better thanks for asking

well i had a cople of bad week and is just wanned some ont to talk to ….

ofcurse not, you have new friends and your solving your problems little by little so that is realy good in my book

oo that realy nice im happy for you ! :)

yes most of time there is some one out there to talk to so it does work !

hahaha i did the samething ! i guess most people do that lol