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Aaww!! if i tell you i love you, will you stay!!!

welcome to my world!!! people in hell want ice water, they keep asking god for some but don’t get it!!! why do you think that is!!!

dump this guy, get on the pill, or some birth control method ,or stop having sex !! you know the consequences!! why do you keep having sex!!! WITHOUT CONTROL!! he obviously don’t care about you, all he wants is to get off!! and he does then what!! did he at least pay for the abortions, and did he go with you!! you need to take care of yourself and your needs, the hell with him, im sure he’ll find some other girl who do the same as you. we as women need to look out for ourselfs no one is going to do it for us!! especially MEN!!!

do you have any adea where he might live, we need a b-day and the last place he lived that would help with the search!!!

you can tell me what ever you want. i’ll be your friend and wont judge you for what you are!!! we all need friends and people to talk too!! i have 2 gay cousins,and the rest of my family always talks crap about them, and it really pisses me off, especially becouse their lives are such a disfuntional disaster who are they to judge any one!!!
and if your friends are true, they will accept you no matter what your sexual prefence is!! good luck.

i’m sorry that you have ti live like that! and if ur mom don’t beleive in divorce why do you have a step dad!!!! i’m a divorce mom and i have a boyfriend who tries to be mean to my girls, i see the evil in him as well, but belive me i do something about it!! there is no man in this world that will mistreat my kids as long as i’m alive, i stand up to him and tell him he has no right to treat MY KIDS!!! in a bad way,my kids don’t disrespect him or talk back!! they just stay away from him as much as possible!!! but we have tons of fights about the girls, so my next option is to leave him, and thats what i’m going to do!!! my kids come first, and your mom should do the same, tell her to wake up!! and open her eyes to your unhappyness!! and think of her kids and f**k her beliefs of divorce, whats more important!! him or her kids!! or her stupid beliefs!! let me know what happens ok!!

in response to your reply! i am honest with myself and i did love him a whole lot, i would of done anything for him, but now i can’t stand him! and all of this is his fault, i’ll tell you why! He is a very selfish man, and mean especially mean, to me and to my other 2 girls that are not his, my kids never say anything to him disrespectful,or ignorant to him, and he hates them being around, especially the oldest, he can’t expect me to choose him over my girls!! what kind of mother would i be! on top of that he treats me like crap!! he has no remorse for no one not even me!! there alot more to this, but he has no rigth treating my girls like that especially when my kids aren’t bad to him!! all he ever wants to do is send them away to their dads!! and he wil not go any where if they go with us! so this is why i need to leave him and be on my own, he mean and evil and will never change who he is!!

as for your situation i’m sorry she left, especially without the kids! what kind of mother is she!! them poor kids!! they must be so sad and miss their mom, i would never leave my kids EVER!!! most kids can deal without a father! but no one should be with out a mom!! she will regret leaving them one day, for what it’s worth, if she can just walk away just like that from her kids, then your probably better off!! good luck!!

yes try zabsearch.com this can help if you know the city they live in good luck!

my brother comitted suacide 30yrs ago this august! he was 10 i was 6 and i still remember that day like it happened yesturday!!! it will never leave my mind! as it will never leave the minds of those who love you if you do that to them, my mom still cries over it after 30 years !!! THINK ABOUT THAT!!!!!!

get out and do something, give her some space!!! and see if you can fuction without her!! good luck!!!

my dad was that way, still is and im 38 yrs old!! but i haven’t spoke to him in almost 3 yrs, im sorry to say, they never change!!! no matter how good or bad, they are who they are, thats why i merried at 19 yrs old to get away from him now im divorced and in a bad relationship, thats all we get from having parents like this, make a change, don’t let him put you down!! he is just pist off for his failers,

if he doesn’t know don’t tell him this will only make it worse!! i know i went through it, if you love ur husband then forget the other guy now!! but if you dont love him tell him your feelings changed!! but don’t tell him you cheated!! i know what im telling you, i still hear about it after almost 2 yrs!! thats worse than the guilt, becaouse what can you say to them when they throw it in your face, NOTHING!! you have to take it!! becaouse they are right!! sometimes i wish we he never would of said he forgave me!! they truly don’t forgive you!! they only want to torment you!! to get back at you!!! now i want to leave him cuz of the way he treats me. GOOD LUCK!!

if it was just a few days after, no! 2 weeks yes, you get pregnant when you ovulate, thats 2 weeks after your period!!!

if she can’t be nice to you , she has no respect for you, i think being your friend and being mean to you makes her feel superior! don’t give her that power! you can make other friends.

Try a web site zabsearch.com it might help you locate him,if you have a bday a state where he might live it will narrow the search good luck!!!